loversQUARREL.
By ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
Philippines
May 12, 2018 10:29am CST
Good late evening, every one. It is 23:15 now and I am in my bed. I was dozing off while watching TV that my son talked loudly to me," ma, go to bed now". So I kissed him goodnight.
I would read some discussions here in my phone to get my eyes droop, but there is a pair of young adults who are talking loud just outside my window. They are having a lovers quarrel.
You know what my sister does? She opens,closes and opens again her window's jalousie so these 2 people know 2 persons are hearing their fight.
I do not mean to listen to them but it is already quiet and our neighbors are sleeping, then here they are, not whispering but talking aloud. Of course I would like to see their faces but when I opened my jalousies, they moved away,still quarrelling.
I just shook my head and smiled. I don't think they will be able to fix their lovelife because the word war is too much.
If you have animosity to somebody, do you do the first move to reconciliation even though you are not the one at fault?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
14 May 18
right on that. that is what we do every time there are quarrels outside our window.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
18 May 18
@aureliah definitely, they leave the area, or they soften their voices.
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@allen0187 (59648)
• Philippines
13 May 18
Nothing like a foolish lover's quarrel to keep you awake at night.
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@allen0187 (59648)
• Philippines
13 May 18
@ridingbet that hair pulling incident between rivals sounds like a good post idea.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
15 May 18
@allen0187 hahaha! yes, it should be. there are many instances that i and my sister open, close, open and close our jalousies because of what these people openly share to us. when one more incident happens, i will certainly make a discussion about it
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 May 18
yes that is true. our wall is like the wall of shame because we even witness some hair-pulling incident between the original and the second hand women of a man's life. our neighbors also have their drinking spree but good thing they leave not very intoxicated.
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@silvermist (19701)
• India
12 May 18
Yes,I do not mind making the first move.But not always.There are exceptions.
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
12 May 18
Well, in my case, my husband and I would compromise. It doesnt matter who is at fault.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 May 18
good to know hija. that is nice.happy Mother's Day to you (advance?).
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@mlgen1037 (29882)
• Manila, Philippines
13 May 18
@ridingbet Thank you po. Happy Mother's Day to you din po and your sister. 
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@Jessabuma (31696)
• Baguio, Philippines
12 May 18
Yes sometimes but not all the time. Hehehe!!!
Can I talk to you po on pm? I have something to ask you..if it is okay for you..?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 May 18
i think the one who is at fault should do the first move to talk to the partner and sort things out
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 May 18
yes, my sister has this practice of using the jalousies if there is someone out there making disturbance at night.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 May 18
same here, hija. i can be somebody who will not stop asking for forgiveness if i am at fault, but if i am the one hurt, i cannot even look at that person's eye if he or she does not ask for forgiveness from me.
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