NCP

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Hello fellow mylotters!! Hope is all well wherever you are. Mylot is a place for me to talk about my mother-in-law. When my husband and I remarried, the mother-in-law and I got along pretty good. Things seem to turn sour when she moved down with us. I don't know if I ever explained how we got 3 acres of land. I will now explain it. My husband knew (they dated in high school) the woman that had this place. The woman sold the 3 acres to my husband's younger sister (for $1.00) only under the condition that my husband would be coming to help fix up the place. The woman even wanted to put my husband's name on the title of the land!! My husband didn't want his name on the title as he owed back taxes ( that his mother did and did it wrong, another story of her destruction.) So, 5 years ago the hubby, myself and the sister-in-law came down here. The husband did all the electric work. The sister-in-law is a "city" person and she was dragging her feet. This is when the mother-in-law comes into place..she took it upon herself to get her daughter down here. Well, it worked and it ended up, the mother-in-law driving her out of here and the mother-in-law living here with the hubby and myself. We just recently split the 3 acres up and we have 1.5 acres and the mother-in-law has her own 1.5 acres. Now to the reason of this post and the meaning of NCP. NCP is narcissistic personality disorder. If you read the article (which I will provide the link for) this exactly describes the mother-in-law and her behavior. She always has to be in control of everything...proof of making her daughter sign over the land. Also having her son fix up "her" house. She also lies and steals. Plenty of examples of that personally and including her going to make payments on a motor home and her trike (motorcycle). She made payments on them and some how convinces the people to give her the titles and once she's got the title, she doesn't pay off the item. Now the latest is she stares at us when we're coming and going. The husband when he was younger (before he was dropped off at a foster home because his father feared that his mom would kill him in his sleep) had read some papers from psychiatrists (that she was suppose to have been put in an institution) that she was diagnosed with all sorts of mental orders such as multiple personalities, schizophrenia and many others and there was one that he couldn't remember but after doing some searches he thinks it's NCP. So, now that I know this, maybe I can quit wondering about why she is doing what she is doing and getting irritated because of her behavior. I'll definitely try more to ignore her. I started that already by "blocking" her on FaceBook. ~Peace~ https://www.everydayhealth.com/emotional-health/how-deal-with-narcissistic-behavior/