Why do some guys fear committed

Nairobi, Kenya
July 11, 2018 12:25pm CST
I have a friend who has a guy friend and so one day the guy tells her that he likes her but he is afraid of commitment, now my friend is confused since she never understood him, is he a cheat or just loves making girls around him friends with benefits?
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@aureliah (24687)
• Kenya
18 Jul 18
I guess they fear being committed to someone and they just want to be 'free' or they don't like responsibilities
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• Nairobi, Kenya
18 Jul 18
very true
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Jul 18
Not a guy I would want to have more than a friendship with, without benefits.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Jul 18
@Fliafaith The benefits are free.
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Jul 18
@just4him very true
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• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Jul 18
Many I don't know why they prefer friendship with benefits
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
14 Jul 18
both i think. i would just be friends and act like i want no commitment either nor would i give out benefits that has always drove men wild. they want what they can't have. i have been proposed to more times then i was married and i was married 5 times to men that begged me to marrt them a while before i gave in
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Jul 18
That's the reason I feel that am even scared of loving at the moment, there are some people who just want to use others
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 Jul 18
At times it is so hard to understand men
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 Jul 18
And they say we are the ones who are complicated
• India
11 Jul 18
She can ask him directly or might ask other girl friends of her.
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Jul 18
When she asked him that was the answer she got
@Icydoll (36713)
• India
11 Jul 18
Just take her own time to know that guy..it's not good for her to get commited without knowing properly.
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Jul 18
Thats what I also told her, but it's like the guy doesn't want to be in a relationship at the moment