Addiction & Modertaion Plants and Birds
By GreatMartin
@GreatMartin (23670)
Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
September 2, 2018 7:37pm CST
"They" say when you lose weight your stomach shrinks but they couldn't prove it by me. After I lost my 100+ pounds I never had a problem eating as much as I wanted including New Year's weekend 1999-2000. A couple of hours after eating a 5-pound ham (minus whatever the bone weighed) plus 2 liters of diet cola I somehow managed to get to the phone, call 911 and don't remember much after that until I woke up in the hospital and was told I had a case of congestive heart failure. One benefit was I probably lost the weight I gained eating that ham after a few days in the hospital. (An aside: that's when I started the meds that I wrote about the other day.)
Lack of Moderation or addiction?
PLANTS
I have 28 potted plants in my apartment. I've always loved plants/flowers and I usually had a couple around me but when and/or how did it become 'obsessive'? By taking cuttings a planting them I, somehow, have Christmas Cacti that bloom around Christmas, Easter and, somehow or other, in February, especially every 4 years around February 29th!! That was crazy but I have the pictures to prove it over the past 3 (12 years) Leap Year birthdays. When we got new owners of Gateway the first rule they made was 'no plants outside the apartment' so I had a choice of either throwing some of them out and bringing in the rest to my apartment which is what I did. I originally had over 30 plants so, at least I rationalized, I had less now. That was good, wasn't it? Moderation? Addiction?
BIRDS
I've always had a pet, usually a dog but sometimes either fresh or saltwater fish sometimes both. Now that I was old(er)---I wasn't old at that time--I really didn't want the responsibility of a dog plus I would have to give a $500 deposit, which I didn't have and, living on the second floor, back then, fish tanks were out of the question. I don't recall who mentioned it first but at work someone suggested a bird. I gave it some thought and said: "Why not?" Possibly if I had done some research I wouldn't have gone in that direction but I didn't, so I did.
I started with 1 budgie---you know them as parakeets--then I had 2. Jill surprised me with a cockatiel and, once again I had 2. Her budgie hatched a few eggs and she gave me 2. Then I made a mistake by buying a pair of finches! Folks they are worse than rabbits. Before I knew it I had 21 finches, 3 budgies (1 had died) and 2 'tiels in 6 cages!
It wasn't long after that my doctor told me because of having COPD the dander from the birds was making it worse and I would have to get rid of them. I immediately thought of a couple of birds that had low or no dander but I couldn't have them because of my taking blood thinner there was the danger they would bite me, break the skin and cause problems, whereas the birds I did have wouldn't do that damage. Now I was without a bird! Obviously not moderation but what about addiction?
By the way birds are the easiest pets to have and take care of so keep that in mind.
(To be continued--with carrot cake, ice cream, pizza, cookies, etc.)
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Sep 18
You made my tummy ache with that ham story. Being on my own I eat very little and only if I am really hungry. I will make myself some breakfast at least twice a week and usually skip lunch and never can decide on dinner. However I am not losing weigh at all it just all seems to come out even somehow.
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@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
3 Sep 18
Do you do any exercise at all? Walking?
Hope you don't mind but I wanted to put the bird picture up and as far as I can tell you can only post 1 picture on a discussion!
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Sep 18
@GreatMartin Oh, yes, I get walking into my routine. I have only my two feet to rely on getting anywhere I need to go. It is not every day but at least several times a week. I love all those birds. Now I am wondering since it is only me and Sid if he would not mind some parrot company. All three of us could talk up a storm I am just not too convinced I should go for the parrot.
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@jstory07 (148712)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Sep 18
@GreatMartin I like all of those birds. Thanks for sharing the picture.

@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
3 Sep 18
I don't have a green thumb--I just threaten them I will sing if they don't grow and bloom and they get to work! LOL
Thanks--the health is back on track!
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@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
5 Sep 18
@RubyHawk I also grew 3 avocado plants--they grew to 6' feet tall when the owners of the residence said we couldn't have plants outside plus we had a 20 year old avocado tree that last year, with all the fruit trees around the residence, was cut down because they were hurricane liabilities!!! That tree gave us 75 avocados every year!!
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@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
7 Sep 18
@RubyHawk That was along with orange, lemon, grapefruit, mango and banana trees! ARGH!
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
3 Sep 18
I bet when you had all of the birds together your apartment sounded like a tropical rain forest. I did not realize that birds had dander that bad.
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@Shellyann36 (11383)
• United States
4 Sep 18
@GreatMartin Really? My aunt always kept birds and it seems as if they were constantly loud and singing.
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@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
3 Sep 18
Actually they were only vocal in the morning when I removed their cage covers and at sunset.
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@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
3 Sep 18
Actually birds are the easiest plus you can have fun with them--all you can do with fish, as pretty as they may be, is look at them though I must admit breeding Bettas is like watching a ballet.
@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
5 Sep 18
Oh they want everything uniform--nothing on the window sills, nothing on the outside of the doors, holiday decorations only in your apartment, etc., etc.
At one meeting I asked them what color uniforms would my building have to wear or were all 20 building going to have the same color--they weren't happy with my questions!!! :O)
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
5 Sep 18
@GreatMartin Sheesh, I'd hate to be told what to do in my own home!
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@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
6 Sep 18
@jaboUK That's what happens when you're poor!! :O)
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@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
3 Sep 18
I was thinking of getting a conure, not a dander problem, but the 'bleeding' would be a problem! :O)
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@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
7 Sep 18
@Courage7 Nope---I don't have time for problems! :O)
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@Courage7 (19626)
• United States
4 Sep 18
@GreatMartin Oh I see Martin well then we dont need any problems.
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