Relationships second time around
@allknowing (153544)
India
September 11, 2018 11:27pm CST
This maid is back in my life after she left me in a huff ten years ago For whatever reason all was not well between us
Slowly I started getting calls just to ask how I was doing. She got married and now has a son. Out of the blue she calls me if she could come and work for me for a few months. Her mother apparently will take care of your son. No questions asked.
Today is the third day and sugar will not melt in our mouth taking care to see both are happy with each other
Second time around relationships are always better or may be I could say the best.
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@rsa101 (40952)
• Philippines
12 Sep 18
Depends maybe on the way the two of you separated. There are instances that you have irreconcilable differences that will need to heal a little longer. In your case it certainly looks like the both of you silently settled the problem. So good luck and hoping the best in your restored relationship.
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@rsa101 (40952)
• Philippines
12 Sep 18
@allknowing Maybe she realized her mistakes in the past that is why she is trying to change for the good
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
12 Sep 18
@rsa101 It was her circumstances that she could not concentrate, then
@allknowing (153544)
• India
12 Sep 18
She is back here and I do notice the difference in her approach to work.
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Care is taken to avoid the trodden path
@allknowing (153544)
• India
12 Sep 18
Changed circumstances could also play a positive effect.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
13 Sep 18
@allknowing I do agree with you. It is better to be in distant for a while.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
12 Sep 18
Moral of the story. Never to close a chapter forever.
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
12 Sep 18
I believe everyone should be given second chances. Second time around is sweeter.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
12 Sep 18
There are several reasons why maids find household chores a bore and rightly so.
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@GardenGerty (169439)
• United States
13 Sep 18
I am hoping that is the same with me at work.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
13 Sep 18
These kind of situations one sees in every walk of life - divorce, family feuds the works Hope you get a second chance.
@allknowing (153544)
• India
12 Sep 18
It is not an obligation. I was looking for one and someone who knows the ropes would be a better choice.
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@cherigucchi (15934)
• Philippines
12 Sep 18
That is good if it works well but in some cases, it does not work.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
12 Sep 18
Should work as we both know how to handle the situation.
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@wolfgirl569 (135601)
• Marion, Ohio
12 Sep 18
Glad to hear that things are better this time.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
13 Sep 18
As I have commented elsewhere now the circumstances are conducive to a good relationship.
@allknowing (153544)
• India
13 Sep 18
Ys. We are happy with each other. No trampling toes (lol)
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@Starmaiden (9308)
• Canada
12 Sep 18
I hope whatever caused the friction in the past has been resolved. 
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
12 Sep 18
There were issues that were bothering her that interfered with her work.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
12 Sep 18
What makes you think I made mistakes I have not given any details. If I had made those mistakes she would not have taken the first step
