Trying again soon
By Ms Rae
@carebear29 (32002)
Wausau, Wisconsin
November 1, 2018 2:30pm CST
So I have one week left of my birth control and that is next week and then I get to try and have another child before my body can't handle it anymore. I am 34 years old and my son has been wanting another sibling. I miscarried back in May of this year and to get my periods under control the doctor put me on 3 months of birth control. By the way I was 9 weeks when I miscarried. I think I mainly miscarried due to stress according to my doctor. Plus the RH Factor (google it if you don't know lol. It just deals with 2 different blood types.) I really hope to have a girl this round. We are still keeping the baby names we had before. The one I miscarried we named Angel because the genitals weren't developed enough to know. Its hard but I am hoping this time I can carry. I would have been due November 14th. So that will be a depressing day for me at least. We got most of the baby stuff except the crib and the baby carrier. I know birth control can take up to 3 months to get out of your system but I am ready no matter what my body brings me. Wish me luck when I do. Probably make a post when I try again or when I get pregnant lol. 
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Nov 18
I would wait until it's out of your system so the baby doesn't have any birth defects or you don't lose another little one. Losing one baby is hard enough. Can you imagine going through that again?
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Nov 18
@carebear29 Just trying to save you some heart ache since I have had 2 miscarriages myself. =(
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@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 18
You are 34 years old so you have plenty of time. I haven't any experience of oral birth control. However I do think it takes around 3 months to get out of your system. I am very sorry that you had a miscarriage at 9 weeks pregnancy. In your new pregnancy try to stay stress free. Look at the Internet to see how to have a baby girl. RH is to do with blood groups. If a couple are plus and minus it can cause problems. My son was born disabled and a relative on his fathers side also had spina bifida. A lot of spina bifida babies get hydrocephalus and my son did. My son was born in 2007 and my daughter was born in 2009. Good luck.
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@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
6 Jan 19
@carebear29 It seems to work for most couples that try it. Good luck.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
31 Dec 18
thanks for the advice. i will totally look into it. thanks
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
2 Nov 18
I hope it goes well for you and you carry to term this time
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
1 Nov 18
I have survived the heartache of losing a baby from the father's side of the equation. David would be a grown man of 32 years now.
I do pray that you are successful in carrying to term this time around and wish for you a happy, bouncing baby girl.
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
2 Nov 18
I had a son I carried full term and he passed away 17 days after I had him he would be 20 years old.
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
2 Nov 18
@DWDavis Thanks! And what made it harder wasfinding out a year to losing our son I was pregnant with our daughter it was scary until we found out she was going to be ok and not have the same problem our son did.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
2 Nov 18
@Tina30219 I am so sorry you had to go through that.
The first time I heard the Kenny Chesney song, "Who You'd Be Today," I totally lost it.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 Nov 18
@carebear29 You are so very welcome.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
1 Nov 18
You know we are all wishing the best for you. Have you got the stressful parts of your life under control now?
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
6 Nov 18
As others have said, I'd wait til the birth control is completely out of your system. But of course, it is your choice.
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
3 Nov 18
Just don't forget to pray always,
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