Toxic people
@nela13 (59367)
Portugal
November 24, 2018 10:29am CST
There are people who leave us sad, depressed, unwell and who rarely have a positive outlook on life to convey to us. They are people who do not add anything to us, bring us nothing good and still poison our days. I have a "friend" that is toxic for me, everytime I speak with her I feel depressed, she always have more problems than anyone else and never pay attention to what I am telling her because her problems are more important, everything is a problem to her and she can see problems in my life that I don't even know they existed 
This negativity is destroying our relationship, she called me a few minutes ago to ask me if I want to take a coffee with her tomorrow, I lied and I said that I can't because I just don't want to be with her. I took the decision to stay away from her from now on, I think it is the best thing for me as she seems to poison my days and use up my energy.
Do you have this kind of people in your life? If so, what do you do?
This negativity is destroying our relationship, she called me a few minutes ago to ask me if I want to take a coffee with her tomorrow, I lied and I said that I can't because I just don't want to be with her. I took the decision to stay away from her from now on, I think it is the best thing for me as she seems to poison my days and use up my energy.
Do you have this kind of people in your life? If so, what do you do?15 people like this
15 responses
@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
25 Nov 18
I think everybody has someone like that in their life who seems to poison the very air they breathe. I avoid those kind of people like the plague. I am a very positive and optimistic person, so I don't want all that negativity in my life. We only get one chance at life on this rock, so we might as well make the most of it, instead of sulking and being depressed all the time.
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@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
26 Nov 18
@nela13 I would rather spend time with positive people who attract positive and good things!
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@nela13 (59367)
• Portugal
26 Nov 18
@moffittjc I have some very happy friends and It is with them that I want to spend my time.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
26 Nov 18
Oh yes, I know a deal of people who are that way and I must say that distancing yourself is best
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@nela13 (59367)
• Portugal
27 Nov 18
@FayeHazel I don't want to be mean but I need to take care of my sanity.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
27 Nov 18
@nela13 It is good you are wise to her now
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
25 Nov 18
It's hard to be friends with those kind of people or to spend a lot of time with them. Thankfully, I do not have any friends like that.
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
27 Nov 18
@nela13 You have to do what you have to do! 
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
24 Nov 18
Not anymore but I did and it was a weight on me for many years.
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@PainsOnSlate (21845)
• Canada
7 Dec 18
No, life is to short to put up with nasty people. No negativity is allowed around us, we believe in being positive.
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@ethal2018 (387)
• United States
25 Nov 18
yes several and its really hard to tell fibs and make excuses
not be with them when their family..,
I'll tell them I have to work or something came up I really hate to be like that
but I don't want to be around that..
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@nela13 (59367)
• Portugal
25 Nov 18
I feel bad about making excuses but I feel It is the best for me to stay away from her.
