Men's and Women's writing styles

By Faye
@FayeHazel (40230)
United States
February 7, 2019 4:31pm CST
Happy snowy day, MyLot! By the way, the video link at the bottom isn't anything to do with the title - it's just me, getting up early this morning to go move my car and showing you the roads getting cleared off. I thought some of you might really enjoy seeing it, particularly those of you who don't get snow. But, what I really wanted to talk about is men's and women's writing styles as evidenced by two novels that I recently listened to in audiobook format. No man (or woman) bashing is intended. And not all men, nor all women write like this. Thank goodness. I listened to the audiobook version of Jodi Piccolt's "Vanishing Acts" first. A woman had her life turned upside by the solving of an old kidnapping case. The main character has 2 love interests who are slavishly devoted to her - ignoring all others and obsessively, impossibly in love with her. Now I'm not saying that men can't be that way - but in this book Piccolt takes it to an almost cartoonish level. The next book that I happened to enjoy in audio format was John Sanford's "Escape Claus" - a story about a man tracking down thieves who stole 2 rare tigers. It's set in my home state of Minnesota. However Sandford's main character enjoys oogling other women in front of his girlfriend. I thought it was hilarious the contrast between the versions of attraction between the genders. While there are likely people who exemplify both extremes, the majority of people probably fall somewhere in the middle of those extremes. Totally unrelated weather video:
Just a short video for friends in warmer climates who might be interested in how we remove snow from streets
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@nela13 (59367)
• Portugal
8 Feb 19
I saw the video, that Is a lot of snow and I always thought the vehicle that remove the snow weren't that fast.
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@nela13 (59367)
• Portugal
13 Feb 19
@FayeHazel we don't have snow here but I know salt is used in some European countries.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
13 Feb 19
@nela13 How nice for no snow :-) The salt is very effective but also corrosive on cars
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
13 Feb 19
Ah good observation - these are small snow removal vehicles - used for town streets. The plows for state highways are a lot bigger, size of a garbage/dump truck - they are a lot slower, too. The also sprinkle salt on the roads, to melt ice
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@WorDazza (15826)
• Manchester, England
8 Feb 19
We occasionally get snow like that in the UK but we're never that efficient at clearing it!! I must admit I rarely read novels written by women. I don't think it's necessarily the style that's the problem but rather the subject matter!
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
8 Feb 19
Ah - unfortunately we get plenty of practice clearing away snow here :/ I admit - I tend to like thriller, mystery, sci-fi books. There are some good female authors in those categories - Chevy Stevens, Gillian Flynn, and I am actually enjoying Jodi Piccolt quite a bit, too. What kind of books do you like?
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
13 Feb 19
@WorDazza "War and Peace" - that's huge, isn't it? I read "Do Androids …" - I really enjoyed it - though must say I love the film adaptation more . ("Blade Runner")
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@WorDazza (15826)
• Manchester, England
13 Feb 19
@FayeHazel War and Peace is pretty huge but it's actually very readable. I'm a big fan of Dostoyevsky but I do find Tolstoy more readable. As I love Blade Runner I thought it was about time I read "Do Androids..."
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
8 Feb 19
wanna share that snow? lol. any amount of snow is welcomed here, as we haven't gotten anything but a covering 2-3 times. I think most probably are in the middle too.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
8 Feb 19
@FayeHazel I wouldn't be mad, lol
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
8 Feb 19
@Courtlynn Oh how I wish it were possible
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
8 Feb 19
Oh yes lol I so wish I could send you some of this … stuff … lol.
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@Plethos (13718)
• United States
7 Feb 19
hmm, i should go insult a fellow male writer on here and tell him he "writes like a girl!" oh wow thats a bit of snow. it looks like sand, but white and icy . . . and cold. im used to sand, i think i now love my sandbox .
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@Plethos (13718)
• United States
7 Feb 19
@moeybags - I didnt have to go find a male to insult, thanks for volunteering. btw - you write like a girl doctor
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
8 Feb 19
@moeybags Hm? I have messy handwriting too, so? And I could be a dr. if I wished.... so...
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
8 Feb 19
Lol, well unless you found a guy who writes about being slavishly, cartoonishly into a woman.... you'd miss my point, but maybe you're not going after my point anyhow. Interesting. Actually now that you say , I think sometimes movie or film people use sand to duplicate snow scenes or sometimes the moon -- I think it acts similar - snow around here can pile up in banks and drifts,
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
14 Feb 19
Well, Mary Tyler Moore whose TV series was fictionally based in Minnesota would definitely prefer the woman writer. And maybe the snowy weather too
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
14 Feb 19
Can you believe, I don't think I've ever seen that show.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
19 Feb 19
@dgobucks226 Oh cool I have Prime
@dgobucks226 (37621)
15 Feb 19
@FayeHazel I am watching episodes on Amazon Prime, but I believe it can be found on Hulu and even on You Tube.
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• Rupert, Idaho
8 Feb 19
That is very interesting to think of....Never really paid attention to that myself, but it is intriguing.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
8 Feb 19
I'm sure it just stood out to be because I read/listened to the books right after each other
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• Rupert, Idaho
8 Feb 19
@FayeHazel That is a very good point!
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
7 Feb 19
thank you.I have nothing to add this.Have a good evening
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
8 Feb 19
Thanks! You too!
@JudyEv (381837)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Feb 19
Thanks for the clip and I for one found it very interesting. You'd never see anything like that here.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
8 Feb 19
Thanks! I'm happy you enjoyed it. It's something different for those who don't get to experience it
@franxav (14588)
• India
7 Feb 19
I too have found it to be so. Writing styles of men and women are different.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
8 Feb 19
Humourous differences at times
@anya12adwi (10292)
• India
15 Feb 19
I always thought that a write-up has no gender!!
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
15 Feb 19
true, but the person who is writing it does
• Santiago, Chile
7 Feb 19
Those two books seem interesting to either read or listen to. As for the link I enjoyed the video, and eve more when in my country snow doesn't fall, it's nice to see it at least on videos!
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
8 Feb 19
Oh yeah, I really enjoyed both. I like mysteries or thriller/suspense. Piccolt's books have really kept me entertained as I've read more of hers since. Thanks! I thought maybe people from warmer places would enjoy seeing it. It is sort of pretty and how it gets handled off of roads
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