"Did SOMEONE play your EMOTIONS?"

@Shavkat (141906)
Philippines
March 3, 2019 9:59pm CST
In this world, there are so many people who are so insensitive. It comes to a point that they are playing our emotions. Sometimes you feel regret knowing them. I was just trying to insinuate this because my so-called essay editor manager sent a message today. He informed me that I can request essays to be edited for this week. I had shared this sentiment about it a few days back and decided to stop working with him. Thus, I ignored his message and continued to feel being relaxed for today. "Did you ever experience being played by someone?" "How do you deal with these people?" Image Credit: cdn-webimages.wimages.net
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
4 Mar 19
If I do not have to deal with them again, I wouldnt answer, but if I do because of work I would limit my time with him.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
4 Mar 19
I guess you were not able to come across with my last posted discussion about him. In the first place, there is no contract signed with the company. There is no need to continue. I had attached the link to back up my claim. I hope you have the time to check it.
Let me share where I got my essay editing stunt. It is embedded on FB posted by my former manager. Since I decided not to work with them, I stumbled upon a...
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
7 Mar 19
@andriaperry Good for you.
@Ladanger (14572)
• United States
4 Mar 19
I avoid people like that. I have been played with my emotions before and i don't tolerate it anymore
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
4 Mar 19
I can relate to that. I had experienced it for a couple of times. With such manager's behavior, I didn't need to rethink about it. I let it go.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
5 Mar 19
@Ladanger Thank you.
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@Ladanger (14572)
• United States
5 Mar 19
@Shavkat very mature of you. Know your worth
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@jobelbojel (36791)
• Philippines
4 Mar 19
I am glad I don't experience this.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
4 Mar 19
It is nice that you haven't. We don't need to expect to happen. It happens unexpectedly.
• Philippines
4 Mar 19
Yeah, A woman anyways but it was just something i didn't expect.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
4 Mar 19
In some point in our life, there are some people that we can't believe of doing this. In a relationship, some of them are a good player.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
7 Mar 19
@Shavkat I find lots of times people are very cruel and very selfish and do not care about hurting others.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
7 Mar 19
You had described them well. They are so ungrateful sometimes if being helped by us.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
8 Mar 19
@Hannihar What do you mean?
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
7 Mar 19
@Shavkat Thanks but it doesn't make me feel any better.
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@Janet357 (75638)
4 Mar 19
Yes but the good thing was, we never had a relationship. God Jah was sooo good not letting me fall in love with someone who would not marry me.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
4 Mar 19
In a real-life situation, it does happen. But then, it is better to protect ourselves and be wise.
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@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
8 Mar 19
Yes and in a few cases i knew what was ha happening. I just let it go on. Eventually like all bad things it came to an end.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
9 Mar 19
I agree. I do ignore and can deal with them later.
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
5 Mar 19
as you say, there was no contract, and you already received your last pay, so you don't have to reply anymore. he'll have to find new people.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
5 Mar 19
Indeed. I don't mind at all. I hope he can find one for his team. I wish him the best. Hopefully, he will change
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@sofssu (23660)
4 Mar 19
I usually don't let people press my buttons. I ignore them and walk away.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
5 Mar 19
I do the same thing. As long as they don't attack me deliberately. It would be fine.
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@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
5 Mar 19
There was a book written in the 1970s titled "Games People Play"--it will answer your question (s)!
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
5 Mar 19
Let me try to check this out. By its title, it does sound that it can really answer my questions. Thanks.
@YrNemo (20254)
4 Mar 19
I am not a patient person. I tend to avoid anyone who has annoyed me (or I will surely blast them to eternity ).
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
4 Mar 19
I can tell how will you dispersed into thin air. This day, the manager keeps on sending messages through Skype. I just ignore him.
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@YrNemo (20254)
4 Mar 19
@dya80dya (36805)
9 Mar 19
I try to avoid such people.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
13 Mar 19
Indeed, my friend. It is a waste of time dealing with them.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
4 Mar 19
Our boss is playing with our emotions...
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
4 Mar 19
I can surely relate to that. My former bosses were like this. I don't mind as long as I am doing my job. They can't do anything if we are doing our job descriptions.
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5 Mar 19
People tend to do or say things for their own well being I think?
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
5 Mar 19
Indeed. It happens in the real world. Most of these people have their personal agendas and don't care if they will affect other people.
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