Bridezilla Cancels Wedding
By pumpkinjam
@pumpkinjam (8876)
United Kingdom
April 11, 2019 7:35am CST
I was just reading this about a woman who called off her wedding, seemingly blaming it on a lack of generosity from her friends and family. She was, apparently, relying on other people who pay for her lavish wedding.
The bride-to-be berated friends and family, calling them 'snakes', and 'awful society'. She said that she 'only' asked for $1500 each from her guests and that they would not be invited if they couldn't stump up the cash.
Now, my opinion of this is that she is the epitome of a spoilt, entitled brat. Asking for money instead of other gifts is all very well but demanding it because you can't afford to pay for the wedding you want, that's a different matter.
It doesn't mention much about the man who should have been the groom but my guess is that he dodged a bullet. All of her friends she 'cut off' certainly seem to have been relieved of a toxic friend.
I am getting married later this year. I'm very grateful that my future in-laws are helping towards the cost but if I couldn't afford to pay for the wedding I wanted, I wouldn't be making plans to have it in the hope that everyone else would pay towards it. I don't think it's acceptable to ask, let alone for the amount this woman was expecting. I think the total of my wedding plus reception adds up to the equivalent of around $4000.
So, what do you think of this bride? Was it fair for her to ask her guests for such a large sum of money? Was she childish to call off the wedding completely?
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@florelway (23339)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Apr 19
Maybe she thinks of her wedding as a stockmarket where investors get to buy a share lol

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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 19
It did seem like she thought of it as something special and exclusive. Of course, weddings are special but it wasn't going to be the exclusive event that she thought it would be. She went on as if people were missing out on the event of the century!
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@florelway (23339)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Apr 19
@pumpkinjam it's a commercialization of a supposed to be solemn vows.

@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
11 Apr 19
It seems he did! He offered a smaller wedding but she decline, evidently ungrateful. She decided to go travelling instead of getting married.
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@Bensen32 (28658)
• United States
11 Apr 19
@pumpkinjam wow guess he didn't know who he was getting married to. Sounds like he got lucky.
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@LindaOHio (222288)
• United States
11 Apr 19
She had no right to even ask ANY amount to help pay for the wedding. Everyone concerned should be glad she called off the wedding.
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
11 Apr 19
Very true. It's fine to ask for monetary gifts (we've asked for people to donate to a charity rather than give us gifts but it's still their choice), I think, but certainly not to ask for other people to foot the bill for the wedding.
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