Little Man is Moving On
By pumpkinjam
@pumpkinjam (8876)
United Kingdom
April 19, 2019 2:05am CST
Yesterday, I posted a discussion about my sons mostly about Midi. This time, it's Mini's turn.
Mini is 13 years old. He's a relatively normal teenage boy - likes his computer games, not very sociable, converses in grunts! He's also really awesome in lots of ways.
Mini has been involved in Scouting since 2015. He started out as a Cub, moved on to Scouts, and is soon to be invested as an Explorer.
He was carried around his Scout group last night as his friends said goodbye to him. I've just seen a Facebook post on their page about it. They mention how well he's done and highlighted the fact that he won a really special trophy last year - the Endeavour Award (there is a post on here somewhere about that).
I'm really proud of him that he's stuck to it. He'd had other hobbies - dancing, gymnastics, horse-riding - which he did do for a while. His main hobby is his drama. He wants to be an actor. He joined a local group when he was 8 (that particular group closed due to low membership but he did move on to the next one). He then started with a semi-professional theatre academy where he's done various performances.
Next week, Mini will be invested as an Explorer, and then he'll be taking part in our annual St George's Day parade. That was the one where he got the Endeavour Award last year. He won it because he'd achieved so much with Scouts as well as outside of that. I remember them saying that he'd gone from a Cub hiding under tables because he didn't want to interact to a helpful Scout who held the prestigious position of 'second sixer' for a while.
As I said, I am very proud of him. Not only because of his achievements but because of the extra barriers he's overcome to achieve them. When I say 'overcome', maybe I mean 'ignored'! He and I have never let his disabilities come in the way of his potential.
The picture is of Mini as a 9 year old Cub in 2015. This was his first parade.
I didn't really make the last post into a discussion so I'll do it with this one and asked what is your proudest moment? What barriers, if any, did you have to overcome to achieve your ambitions?
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
24 Apr 19
The only person who needs to believe in you is you :) I've overcome similar barriers. Not so much people thinking I'm unable but more about other people being pessimistic or discouraging or knocking my confidence. Nowadays, the main problems are procrastination or taking on too much at once!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Apr 19
@pumpkinjam I'm glad you overcame those barriers. Procrastination is a hard one to overcome.
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
26 Apr 19
Thank you. I am always proud of my boys. I remember it almost bringing tears to my eyes when Mini won the award. The leaders said some lovely things about him and about how far he come.
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
26 Apr 19
I'm sure you have something to be proud of. I am proud of a lot of things but I forget sometimes.
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@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
19 Apr 19
You have a lot to be proud of. The only real barrier I had was being a woman; and I think I overcame that quite well.
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
19 Apr 19
Thank you. I think so too :)
Yes, that old 'being a woman' chestnut. As a woman who is dreadful at 'women' things but enjoys 'men' things, that's been something quite tricky. It's like, 'oh, you are female, you must enjoy this 97 hour shopping trip. No, no, you don't really want to join in this woodworking group where you might actually achieve something worthwhile'!
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
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8 May 19
Mini is really involved in a number of different hobbies and activities. A great way to pursue your passions, interact with others kids and learn interesting things. Good for him
Probably graduating college and becoming a teacher. I was not the best high school student so proving to myself I could get a degree was satisfying.
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
9 May 19
Yes, it is great for Mini. It's especially good because he's not great at interacting at school. He prefers his own company, which is fine, but I'm glad he has places where he can make friends and learn useful things.
My eldest son, Midi, is currently training to be a teacher. He's always been academic, though. I did a degree myself, which I finished in 2016. I only got a 3rd but I mainly did it just to prove that I could. I'm thinking about doing another one.
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
26 Apr 19
Wow, his so much talented, he deserve what he got now











