I felt kind of stunned.

@sharon6345 (185151)
United States
April 26, 2019 2:04pm CST
A neighbor dropped by to say he was checking on me. He was very quick to mention that he wanted to borrow my streaming device when he called last. I said I would call back but never did. He said he was not coming here to ask for anything. Just to check on me. I felt bad for a few seconds being put on the spot like that. I am quite tired of being asked for things. So I am not feeling bad right now.
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@maezee (37728)
• United States
26 Apr
Ugh tht is annoying. I hope you didn’t lend it to him!
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@CarolDM (32592)
• United States
26 Apr
You have to be so careful with others these days, as you know.
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@sharon6345 (185151)
• United States
26 Apr
Yes, and I was glad he was not asking this time. He basically wore out his welcome and I am done with it.
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@teenal (1420)
• Dublin, Ireland
26 Apr
I gave up loaning my things out years ago. Too often they would come back broken. I just say I haven't got one or plain no.
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@sharon6345 (185151)
• United States
26 Apr
I have been doing much better with no. And after I began saying it I was less stressed.
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@Corbin5 (149194)
• United States
26 Apr
I would not like someone to be "just checking on me."
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@sharon6345 (185151)
• United States
26 Apr
I can truly say that many times he came to my door I need help.
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@dya80dya (16288)
26 Apr
I understand you. Some people only want to take advantage.
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@sharon6345 (185151)
• United States
26 Apr
That has caused the well to dry up.
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@db20747 (20678)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
26 Apr
And then there's the Hassel of getting it back!!
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• Rupert, Idaho
26 Apr
Sorry to hear that....I would have been stunned too
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@jstory07 (80082)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Apr
I hope you told him NO.
@sharon6345 (185151)
• United States
27 Apr
He did not want anything so I was not in need of saying no.
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• Sonora, California
26 Apr
Ugh that would have had me suspicious!
@sharon6345 (185151)
• United States
26 Apr
That is why I was uncomfortable talking to him.
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• Caracas, Venezuela
26 Apr
I think we was indeed at your door to remind you that you were not able to call, and not to check on you, otherwise he/she would have not mentioned. Anyway that sweet of them, don't feel bad about anything dear Shay!