Oh, its just a headache
By ElicBxn
@ElicBxn (64169)
United States
April 29, 2019 9:53am CST
My father had migraines.
Not my mother, my mother never had a headache until she started reacting to steroids.
Considering that three times more women than men get migraines, you can probably guess the surprise I get from doctors when I tell them who I inherited mine from.
It probably also doesn't help that one of my allergic reactions to some things is a migraine.
In fact, its a wonder I made it through school and college before I discovered that it was one of those foods that gave me the daily headache.
I didn't realize that they were migraines, after all, they weren't so that I had to lay down in the dark, I didn't have nausea... in fact, except for the head pain, I didn't think I had a migraine.
Then I learned that if you have a headache more than twice a month (unrelated to hormones) it is considered a migraine. If you have any headache related to hormones it can be considered a migraine. Of course, I learned this after I had discovered my food allergies and took the item causing the daily headaches out of my diet.
Not that I don't still have migraines - working up to one as I type - but I can go sometimes days without a headache.
They are still mild enough to function - or maybe its just that after all these years (50+) I have a higher tolerance for the head pain.
Another thing I had never had was an aura.
Had.
I've had three, count them, three auras. Those are the worst. Not because they hurt, mine didn't hurt, mine weren't connected to a headache at all, but they made it so I couldn't see out of one eye - my dominant eye. The first time I was afraid I was having a stroke!
So, here is a fact sheet about migraines.
We compiled some of the most moving facts about migraine into an infographic to help people understand the global burden of this disease.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
30 Apr 19
It wasn't painful, it was scary. The first time I ever had one I was at work. I called my eye doctor who told me what it was. The next one was a few months later and wasn't as bad as the first one and the last one was last year and was mostly just a big spot in my eye. None of them lasted more than a half hour, the first one, again, was the longest one.
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@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
2 May 19
i used to get those all the time.always with auras..
light would drive me bug.
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@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
4 May 19
@ElicBxn i used to just go in my room and shut the blinds.noise,light,everything made me feel worse.one time it kept me up 4 days in a row and the hospital had to knock me out.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
4 May 19
@scarlet_woman OUCH! Never been that bad, I could always sleep, even if sleeping sometimes made it worse (woke up with a bad one today - medicine is my friend.)
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
3 May 19
OMG, glad I read this. now I know I am not the only one feels like I am having a stroke and panic when I go blind a bit from pain some where in my body. I some times think it's allergies too but can't pinpoint it.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
3 May 19
I would recommend the allergy elimination diet, at least it worked the first time - some. This one seems... well... both too broad and too extreme.
https://www.webmd.com/allergies/allergies-elimination-diet this one isn't going to give you a guideline on how to do the diet.
I remember that I couldn't eat a lot of foods. Legumes, corn, wheat, rice, onions, garlic,all the fruits and veggies, all the nightshades (white potatoes, tomatoes, eggplant, bell peppers, cayenne pepper, paprika) all meats except beef, most oils, we had to track down an oil from a food that I normally didn't eat, safflower I seem to recall. The only raw thing I could eat was lettuce - I made a light dressing with oil, white vinegar and a little sugar to help them stay combined.
Pretty much, the diet is very limited, but you only to follow it for a week. Then, you add in one food. If you don't get a reaction then after 3 days you can add in one item. Ifyou have a reaction, take that food out and give yourself a few days before you add in a new food item. With the nightshades, only add in one at a time, I have a friend who is fine with tomatoes and stuff, but reacts badly to peppers.
They don't want you drinking anything but water - I added in some sugar just because I can't really drink water plain.
These days its easier to find a wide variety of foods, not so easy back in 1976 when I did this. Quinoa, amaranth, millet, teff, buckwheat, oats are various "cereals" that can be eaten - unless you have ever had a reaction to one of them. Except for oats, most of these are not normally found in the diet of U.S. citizens. I seem to remember they allowed oats when I did it in 1976 and again in 1985. I can also tell you that except for oats, the first thing I eliminated in 1985 was the diet!
Got stomach bloat? Skin rash? Fatigue? It could be a simple food allergy. Try the elimination diet to uncover the culprit.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
3 May 19
@ElicBxn wow thank you. you are a bit of a mess with health like me
if it can happen to anyone it happens to us. 

if it can happen to anyone it happens to us. 

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@Lolaze (5092)
• St. Louis, Missouri
30 Apr 19
I began having migraines in high school and they got worse in college. I’ve actually been in the ER many times for IV meds. Lately they are getting better and I even have come off my daily medication. Stress, weather changes, and hormones seem to trigger mine.
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@SophiaMorros (5044)
• Belews Creek, North Carolina
29 Apr 19
I inherited a tendency to migraines from my mother and have passed that particular genetic predisposition to at least two of my children.
I've never had a visual aura, but I HAVE had other pre-migraine symptoms. Usually, the first clue that I'm about to have a major migraine is difficulty with language. I seem to lose the ability to choose the right words.
The worst I've ever experienced was when I was reading out loud to my highschool-aged children and could read the words but the sentences didn't make sense. It was rather scary.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
30 Apr 19
@SophiaMorros That's good. I never had migraines in relationship to my cycle, so mine haven't really changed since then. I do seem to be getting them more, probably a new food is setting them off.
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@SophiaMorros (5044)
• Belews Creek, North Carolina
29 Apr 19
@ElicBxn it's actually a not uncommon form of non-visual aura. I know longer get migraines as frequently as I once did so I'm not worried about it.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
29 Apr 19
Periodically I have really severe headaches. I have never called them migraines, never discussed them with the doctor. They have gotten to usually be few and far between. However I had "something" all day Saturday and Sunday. Then we had a thunderstorm and I have no headache. No one in my family ever had headaches except me.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
29 Apr 19
The wife gets weather related headaches. They do just show up sometimes. And, if they are severe, they can be considered migraines. Most of mine weren't severe, but they were frequent and sometimes constant, and made them migraines. Wish I had know that before I was 40!
@BarBaraPrz (51811)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
29 Apr 19
I get migraines, too, but I don't get auras... just intense pain and nausea.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
29 Apr 19
Lucky you! My mother knew how to deal with mine because of Dad, but I certainly got them more frequently than he ever did. I think his were worse than most of mine, however. That said, if your head, or any other part of your body, hurts all the time, but looks normal, people think you are looking for attention.













