So Mad Right Now
Wheat Ridge, Colorado
May 15, 2019 8:09pm CST
My sister is so ungrateful. I spend a good deal of money that I have a hard time to spare to buy her things to help her. There is something going wrong with her truly. She has no thankfulness at all and finds something wrong with every blessed day. This is the last time I am going to do for her. I cannot explain this without confusing everyone. So I will just leave it at that. Do you have or have had an annoying person in your life?
19 people like this
• United States
Oh gosh, I am so sorry about what you are going through with your sister. I think of a couple in-law monsters - they do not really bother "us" about things - but they do bother other family members and take advantage of their generosity . . . this has been going on for years. There does come a time when you have to put your foot down and say it ends here - especially if they show no gratitude.
• United States
@TiarasOceanView Ugh - it just happened? I totally understand - enough is enough and you don't need that crap. Sadly my mother in law couldn't put her foot down . . . so my other sister in law took matters into her own hands to stop the unwanteds - but that whole story was a terrible mess in another way too. It all still sickens me. I'm sorry your sister had not been more thankful to you.
• Wheat Ridge, Colorado
@much2say Thank you Much. I understand and I remember that terrible story you were sharing with us here. How horrible. Well the sister I am speaking of cannot help it in a way but gawd dang it is frustrating. Just had to vent here. Thanks lovely xo
in a family,even if we were born from the same parents, we are still different from each other. we have a brother or a sister who is close to us but we also have a brother or a sister whom we cannot go with because of his or behavior.. but as the saying goes, blood is thicker than water. sister is still sister, brother is still brother, no matter what.
I am so sorry you had to go through it and I am really proud of you being a good sister. We all go through up and downs and if someone makes it a habbits of using other people or becaming dependent then its not good. If you noticed the same then you should tell ypur dear one that this is wrong and you need to improve. Sometimes it solve it all
• United Kingdom
I'm not sure if I would go so far as to call any of them a 'monster' but I have (had) some quite horrible people in my life. Some people who expect to be given everything but never give in return. Others who are so selfish that they do not (or will not) see anything from another person's point of view. And some who are just not nice, who make decisions that adversely affect other people or make other people look bad. Sometimes, it's possible to remove these kinds of people from your life. Unfortunately, there are some that you're stuck with. For example, my step-daughters' mum is a manipulative narcissist but we have no choice about her being in our life if we want a relationship with the daughters and granddaughters.
• St. Louis, Missouri
I have a friend who can be a monster at times. She can be clingy and demanding and wants others to raise her child. This usually happens if there are any upsets in her life. She’s very nice most of the time but I have to be careful about helping her out too much or she expects it to be a constant thing.