Lonely I am so Lonely!!
By Shifa
@ShifaLk (17817)
India
May 16, 2019 2:44pm CST
I got divorce last year, 1 year has passed.
Now One day I saw my ex husband has unblocked me, he might be waiting on me to message him first. But what's the use, now everything is over and if someone is actually willing and have changed then he should message first because I never had blocked him. He was the one who initiated divorce. He so badly wanted it because his family wanted that.and he can't go against his family he said.
Well, I believe I'm not a toy to play with whenever he gets bored off.. so I blocked him now. How can I trust someone who spoilt my life and gave me a damn. We don't spoil the people we love.
Is it my time to find a new one or just stay alone in peace.???
But I truly feel lonely sometimes.
We Divorced 1 year ago but separated already for 3yrs and 3 months.
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15 responses
@snowy22315 (169940)
• United States
16 May 19
I agree, it is time to move on. Sometimes exes want to hang on, and are helpful, and always hoping for more. However, your ex doesn't sound like someone like that. I would just move on and not worry about him. Easier said then done I know..but it has been 3 years.
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@wolfgirl569 (95136)
• Marion, Ohio
17 May 19
Time to move on. Stop even looking for his page as that is the only way you know he unblocked you.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
16 May 19
Whether you stay single or marry again is your decision. All the best!
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
17 May 19
@ShifaLk I found that loneliness is not solved by being married. One can be married and be even more lonely than living alone. It is now 19 years that I'm living alone and am not lonely but free. God is my best and constant friend! 
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
17 May 19
@1hopefulman wow... Really..
You know my emptiness is only completely fulfilled when I spend time with LORD..
Nothing else and no one else
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
16 May 19
Time to move on in life.
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@Hannihar (129453)
• Israel
17 May 19
@ShifaLk
No, you are not a toy to play with. Good for you to block him. He sounds like a jerk. You are better off without him than with him. Divorce is not easy but there are times it is very much needed. I have been divorced many many years from now and he was not the right one for me and I was not the right one for him.
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@Hannihar (129453)
• Israel
17 May 19
@ShifaLk
It was hard to meet men here and did not meet many I really liked before got married and after the divorce. My marriage was so bad that I did not want to ever get married again. I do not want my cat to suffer and i do not know how to find the right one. It is hard and i know.
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@LindaOHio (156094)
• United States
16 May 19
Spend time with friends until someone good comes along.
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@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
16 May 19
I guess the most important thing is what you feel. You have to look for your own inner peace, whatever happens to anybody it is just not your business. Take some time for yourself, meet with friends, visit family, and enjoy your singleness. The right person will show up when you least expect it!
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