I blocked someone this day...

Cheaters are always cheaters
@cacay1 (39260)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
May 18, 2019 3:40am CST
in Facebook.It's a guy that I blocked. I missed Accept him. His family name is nearly spelled the same as in the family name of my niece husband in Dubai. I do not know why I did not double check. It's only one letter that differs from the family name close to our family. Why did I block him? The annoyance he 's doing. He kept on calling me through FB messenger. Despite I ignored still he did call. Then he sent many messages stating he wanted to chat me. I said, " What for, there is no reason", I said. His only answer was" he wants to see my face and know my name, very shallow reasons. I do not use aliases in Facebook, I am using my real name and why keep on asking my name? To solve the problem, I blocked him.There are so many of his kind in FB, so let's be vigilant. Have you also experienced like mine? Thanks guys for reading.Take care everyone. Image credit to Facebook
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@LadyDuck (223703)
• Switzerland
18 May
My FB profile is not public, I only allow very few people to see my profile and I only have very few friends.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@LadyDuck, I can't have only few to choose to have updates of my relatives abroad , students, friends and others.
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@LadyDuck (223703)
• Switzerland
18 May
@cacay1 I am very selective who I add to the list of my friends, my relatives are fine, people I barely know will never be added to my friends list.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@LadyDuck hehe thanks for accepting me as friend in FB.
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@YrNemo (16510)
18 May
I don't know much about FB and how to use it properly unfortunately. Whenever I find out that I have accepted a 'wrong person' as a friend, I just delete them.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@YrNemo, that would be a better option, to delete undesirable people.
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@YrNemo (16510)
18 May
@cacay1 I do it discreetly so no one knows about it really (since I don't often use the FB at all) .
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@YrNemo you're great my friend.
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@skysnap (19944)
18 May
Yes I block a lot of people these days who troll
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@skynap, actually I already had blocked almost 100 Facebook people.
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@skysnap (19944)
18 May
@cacay1 thats a lot of people.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 May
@skysnap yes hehehe there are so many reasons hard to elaborate here, mostly my students who wanted to negotiate a passing grade, so annoying and disgusting attitudes.Were were they the time they are required to attend classes and perform all tasks, none, so that's it better block them to ease my disgusting feeling towards them.
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• Cuddalore, India
19 May
You can contact Facebook support for similar issues.
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@yanzalong (11196)
• Indonesia
18 May
I ignored them at the beginning. So they stopped it and nothing more happened.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@yanzalong, actually I accepted him wrongly and after some minutes he kept on miscalling me, messaging me and calling me if sensed I was on line.
@Aansh13 (3814)
• India
18 May
I use to that may be 3 years ago... But now things are going better at my end... Not accepting... Not blocking
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@Aansh13,that was great redolutions
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@Nakitakona (4616)
18 May
I got more than 15,000 members in my FB page. They're teachers and school administrators or principals. My messenger is always filled messages of all sorts. I don't mind them. I just ignore them until they learn how to respect me.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@Nakitakona, that's what I'm doing, only this day so upsetting for his series of unwanted calls and messages.
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18 May
@cacay1 That's a good move. The only thing I block my followers in FB if they're posting adult items. I really hate it.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@Nakitakona mga bastos
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• Agra, India
18 May
It is better to block such people and get peace of mind.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
Yeah, my friend why have headaches when it could be solved instantly.
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• Agra, India
18 May
@cacay1 yes...I apply this here as well
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 May
@amitkokiladitya , yes as long as the person is disgusting and trouble-making, no reason for any person to be on our friend's list, useless, the gain is only heartache and headache.
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19 May
Blocking someone is a positive act. What you did is a positive act. When you feel being exploited or being stalked you need to block them for your own good.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 May
@jaoxanders , so true, there is no reason to be afraid of if the cause is easy to disappear like blocking for a desired effect.
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19 May
@cacay1 Yes kabayan
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 May
@jaoxanders , yes, kabayan, nice meeting you here and others from our native land. Hurray!
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@sugartoes (43412)
• Greencastle, Indiana
18 May
when you get strange people like that it's best you block them & really scan your friend request cause you can get crazy people.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@sugartoes, yes friend , I should be very careful in accepting friendship in Fb.Thankful too, there is block option in Facebook.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@sugartoes, yeah crazy people need to be blocked.They give harm to us.At least there is blocked portion in Facebook.
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@sugartoes (43412)
• Greencastle, Indiana
18 May
@cacay1 I've gad to block or de-friend people too
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@LowRiderX (9443)
• Serbia
19 May
This picture is funnyI have a FB, but I do not use it, it's became boring
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 May
@LowRoderX, hehehe thanks the picture shows a teacher in Chemistry watching his students atop who always loved to cheat.They can hardly cheat at this point of time teacher is wiser now.
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@LowRiderX (9443)
• Serbia
19 May
@cacay1 Thanks for this laugh from the early morning, I needed it
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 May
@LowRiderX , hehehe should you like, you may copy and paste this photo from my heartfelt consent my friend, to enjoy.
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@Gillygirl (30329)
• Sutton, England
18 May
We had the creepy stalker earlier this week. Now you have been tracked on FB. This happened to my daughter not long ago. I have a fake profile pic so I don't think anyone will be interested.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@Gillygirl, really? At least that stalker was detected and blocked.Sounds creepy, right,?
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@Gillygirl (30329)
• Sutton, England
18 May
@cacay1 Very creepy indeed. Whoever looked for you had a cheek.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 May
@Gillygirl , very well said, let us always be smart in sensing fakes.
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@moonandstars (16649)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
18 May
No more on facebook and, you did a right thing
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@moonandstars, sometimes Facebook is so frustrating.Thanks.
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• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
19 May
@cacay1 I totally agree. You're very welcome
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 May
@moonandstars we're only be happy should there be good news or no news at all.
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• United States
20 May
My fb is private, any weird friend request I delete, they look like fake profiles. I usually feel it is someone i might know that is disguising them self, to spy.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 May
@CookieMonster46 , that's great idea, mine is converted to ONLY ME to see my Facebook. I need some rests of mind and heart. I also do not like to engage with FB this time. It adds problem in life.
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• United States
21 May
@cacay1 yes there is always some drama on fb.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 May
@CookieMonster46 very true fake news too.
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@cintol (10734)
• United States
18 May
You have to be very careful who you add to your messenger and facebook accts these days, so many scammers out there trying to get your info and once you accept them they have access to all your friends as well. Glad you blocked him.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 May
@cintol , very well said, my friend was scammed in FB by an Australian national. After learning he was not an Aussie but Syrian terrorist, she landed in the hospital for she already sent the guy almost $1000 US dollars.
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@cintol (10734)
• United States
19 May
@cacay1 Yeah, I have had a few who pop on when I am playing the games to chat. They have asked for money as well but I don't play that game. Just about everyone you chat with during the games are phonies, you can spot them right away. I am sorry that your friend fell for his lies.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 May
@cintol so true, there are many cheaters in Facebook, plus this time, a dating site like Cherry B is connected with it and the more they are free to roam around and scout for a victim.There are lots of foolishness, that is why, I update my profile in Facebook to ONLY ME hehehe.My FB account now is so peaceful only me to see
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@DianneN (120228)
• United States
18 May
I now keep my profile for friends only. Until then, I was bombarded by men messaging me. Not anymore. You did the right thing.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 May
@DianneN, It was not nice of that person after accepting him, wanting to see my face and know my name. My name is already there in my FB account hahaha, so clear and obvious intention to do harm.
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@DianneN (120228)
• United States
19 May
@cacay1 People!
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 May
@DianneN , and there are so many of them harassing people in a site.
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@thelme55 (18173)
• Germany
19 May
I have done the same if I were you. I got messages from G+ and Messenger before who wanted to chat with me. I just ignored them. I always ignore people who say sweetie to me even if I don't know them.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 May
@thelme55 , this is a universal problem, what to do is extra watchful there. This day, I blocked another chat group so annoying.They keep on inviting me .they were my co teachers in the previous school which I no longer like to keep in touch with them for personal reasons.They keep on inviting me despite my refusal.They add burden to my life this time.
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@thelme55 (18173)
• Germany
20 May
@cacay1 you can tell them why you refused to join again so they will know.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 May
@thelme55 there are so many of them and they won't believe and agree on my reasons. One reason there is, one member was my ex- and the other member became his ex and I do not like to see them again for that chat is for a plan for a reunion of teachers in the previous school where I taught for 9 years before I transferred to USTP a government owed university. These teachers had resigned in the previous school, Cagayan de Oro College and migrated to different countries including my ex and his ex. They plan to have a reunion come January 2020.
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• United States
18 May
i'd a 'fella' contact me via the messenger there. said he'd been intrigued by a comment i'd left'n a wild horse post. no doubt a scoundrel thinkin' me'n easy target. the profile they'd used 'd been inactive fer 3 yrs 'n facebook shut 'em down.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 May
@crazyhorseladycx, that was so obvious, that fella wanted to scam you or perhaps lured you with something to make a bond with you stronger; thus easy for her to scam you.At least you were so smart and let her got lost.
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• United States
19 May
@cacay1 yes ma'am, that 'twas my thought which's why i reported 'em to facebook. seems they'd been doin' such to quite a few folks via this fella's account.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 May
@crazyhorseladycx those bad people never prosper in their bad endeavors.
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@arunima25 (20207)
• Bangalore, India
18 May
Facebook can be a real nuisance because of these guys. I have an account there but I hardly go there. It has been more than 4 months since I last visited it. I have that feature on my account where no one can send me a friends request. I was bugged by friends request of so many bugs who are there to just make your life hell.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 May
@arunima25 , you did the right thing, I already updated my Facebook to only ME.It's so peaceful now.
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@arunima25 (20207)
• Bangalore, India
22 May
@cacay1 Good. Enjoy iy
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 May
@arunima25 not enjoyed, so lonesome
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@Janet357 (16635)
18 May
I never entertain strangers on fb, i have an account for my job and another one for my friends in faith.
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@Janet357, I'm also cautious, but I really missed to analyze the family name. It's my fault by the way and regretful about it.
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@Janet357 (16635)
18 May
@cacay1 it’s okay you blocked him already. At least he cannot contact you anymore
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@cacay1 (39260)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 May
@Janet357 yeah thankfully, I should be very careful who knows he would use another name ha
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