Continious self improvement. i'm glad i'm not crazy yet.

@Babino (5761)
Morocco
May 18, 2019 9:47am CST
Do you control yourself from time to time ? to make sure you are what you think you are ? to see if you're really a good person ? Do you fix thing you want to change about yourslef ? and them work on them little by little ? Are you hard on yourself ? do you criticise yourself harshly ? Or you're the nicest person to yourself ? do you have a lot of regrets ? are you in peace with them ? Sometimes i keep thinking about myslef and i, and i'm glad i'm not crazy yet !
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Miss Nikki
@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
18 May 19
I am very hard on myself and my therapist says I expect a lot from myself. I guess it is how I was raised. To always improve and do better and not be a lazy loser. I think that is partly why I have stress and anxiety and had to take time off work. It's good to have a balance and take care of yourself mentally. You are not alone in overthinking yourself, trust me.
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Miss Nikki
@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
21 May 19
@Babino Very welcome
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
18 May 19
exactly, thank you !!
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Nocturnal Writer
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
18 May 19
That's the attitude of narcissistic, a person who loves himself.
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
18 May 19
i don't agree. being a narcissistic is to love yourself more that you should. to always think you're the center of the universe. this is totally the opposite. i'm talking about the fact that i'm not satisfied with who i am, and i'm trying to be a better person.
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
19 May 19
@Nakitakona I totally understand !!
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Nocturnal Writer
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
19 May 19
@Babino Sorry I hit the wrong mark. Actually to improve yourself is a good thing to do.
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bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
18 May 19
sometimes I feel like I am already "over the edge " crazy. and I fight myself to be a better person daily. Especially since I have 2 grown kids that seem to think I am a bad person for choices I made.
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bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
18 May 19
@Babino been quite a few yrs. now. not likely but I still try and improve for others
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
18 May 19
keep trying that's the right thing to do, i'm sure they'll change their minds about you.
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weevee
@weevee18 (2067)
• Philippines
18 May 19
I think a lot. My brain keeps me busy everyday, I tell you that. My brain also likes teasing when it’s bed time. I want to sleep but my brain says oh no not yet you have to think and think and think.
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weevee
@weevee18 (2067)
• Philippines
19 May 19
@Babino yes that too. Our brain would feed us different thoughts everyday and it will depend on us if we will dwell on it or not.
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
18 May 19
yeah it never stops, but it all depends on the kind of thoughts we have.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
18 May 19
Oh, that's a lot of difficult questions. I think and always criticize myself for everything.
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
18 May 19
i don't really expect answers it's just a way of writing and expressing.. maybe you should rethink your relationship with yourself.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
18 May 19
@Babino Yes, I know that I'm wrong what I'm doing, but I've always stopped myself.
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José Valera
@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
18 May 19
Most times I am so hard on myself, and I have been uncountable times that's not the way I should do. Even being said all that I still do it. I need to stop, and I guess the time is now.
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
18 May 19
you should be your best friend.. Glad you're trying.
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José Valera
@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
18 May 19
@Babino You're right about that fact, I have treat myself more like a friend, and not like if I was my mother.
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43424)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
22 May 19
This is a reminder of what I need to start doing!! I need to take action!! And become who I want to be!!
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
23 May 19
Exactly !! all the best.
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Jojo
@Sojourn (13829)
• India
18 May 19
I lead an austere lifestyle.... kind of self control you may say.
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
18 May 19
i've never heared that word before, glad i learned something new. Thank you !!
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Simone
@Janet357 (75657)
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18 May 19
i criticize at the same time praise myself from time to time.
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
18 May 19
good point, i totally forgot about that. it gives some balance !
Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
18 May 19
Striving yourself to be a better person is one of the best approach towards life. In fact, I do that often.... I reconfigure my mind every now and then. Lovely to hear that other people do that too
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Bouta
@Babino (5761)
• Morocco
18 May 19
can't agree more !!
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