Annoyed and Pissed.

@JustBhem (52373)
Davao, Philippines
May 25, 2019 9:58am CST
Yes, I am. My 4th Brother’s girlfriend is here again and she really tick me off. I already told my Brother than if he want’s to give her food be sure she will buy her own. I think he is doing this to make me piss in which he was successful. Why on earth she don’t understand our situation. My Mother is sick, she doesn’t even care of anything even the household or being our Mother, I am sick as well and pay the bills and the one who manages the house. Our youngest Brother was the one who almost do all the chores here, while ny 5th Brother is the one in charge of our food. And my 4th Brother is the laziest of all, who know nothing but to eat and sleep and does not help any of the chores here. He even doesn’t know how to take care of his own son. He just wasted hia time with his girlfriend who is lazy as well. I wonder if her parents taught her manners. What can you say?
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@arunima25 (20722)
• Bangalore, India
25 May
That is so irresponsible of him. I feel that she should be left without financial support from family members to learn to be responsible for his own handling, His attitude must be frustrating for everyone.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
25 May
He know nothing but to eat and sleep.
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@arunima25 (20722)
• Bangalore, India
27 May
@JustBhem He has to be dragged out of his attitude. He can not carry on with this careless attitude especially when he is not financially independent.
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@kepweng (24237)
• United States
27 May
@arunima25 its difficult to havwe a family member like that
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@parpande (1191)
• Bangalore, India
1 Jun
@JustBhem Not exactly same but a similar character is in my wife`s family as well. He is my spouse`s cousin and overweight like 150 kgs , all his attitude and routines are free from any exertion but nobody takes a stand against it in their house ....
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Jun
Why?
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@parpande (1191)
• Bangalore, India
2 Jun
@JustBhem My wife has a joint family, that cousin who is an onus has his father as eldest among all brothers. If any member of the family escalates anything of this cousin then his father takes it to heart and always come for rescue of his own son. My wife is the daughter of second brother , the eldest brother`s son is a problem to the entire family.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Jun
@parpande Because he always depends?
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@amadeo (96117)
• United States
25 May
such a mess there. the girl friend sounds like a loser there. If she does not have any manners .she never will.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
25 May
I agree, she never greet us or anything.
@amadeo (96117)
• United States
25 May
@JustBhem Get rid of her.You do not need friends like this one.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
26 May
@amadeo We are not even friends, Fredo.
@resukill22 (12013)
• Philippines
25 May
When I read your post I feel anger because they are so irresponsible, they don't care about others.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
25 May
Yes. especially with me who pay the bills and work even if I’m disabled.
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@resukill22 (12013)
• Philippines
26 May
@JustBhem yes, it's make me feel sad, why your brother don't see that,, that you are sick.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
26 May
@resukill22 I think that’s how addict think.
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@rsa101 (19338)
• Philippines
27 May
That is sad that all of you had chores to do except him. That is sad that he does not have any responsibility being shared in the family. I just hope thathe will change for the better in the coming days.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May
Nah, I don’t think he will change. He’s been like this like forever. No wonder no one likes to offer him work because he gets lazy in the following days.
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@rsa101 (19338)
• Philippines
28 May
@JustBhem Well as the saying goes you cannot teach old dog new tricks.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May
@rsa101 Indeed.
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@Janet357 (17166)
25 May
I cant blame you. They should have lived separately to avoid conflict.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
25 May
They should since they planned to have a Family. I wonder when my 4the Brother leave the house. I cannot wait.
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@Janet357 (17166)
25 May
@JustBhem maybe you better talk this out too.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
26 May
@Janet357 Once a person is not educated, they tend not to listen.
@rakski (32398)
• Philippines
25 May
Insensitive. Very insensitive.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
25 May
Indeed.
@much2say (35374)
• United States
25 May
Oh gosh - all the freeloaders need to go!
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
25 May
Yes! That include my 4th Brother.
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@DianneN (120603)
• United States
25 May
How awful for you to have to bear it all. They are wicked lazy good for nothing people.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
25 May
I agree Miss D.
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@Aansh13 (4555)
• India
25 May
Yes, her actions are irresponsible, in a situations like this she should be of some help. I sometimes feel that people are way selfish. It's hard to keep sanity in situations like these.
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
25 May
She is a loser!
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@Mulidi (1713)
• Cruz Bay, Virgin Islands (U.S.)
25 May
I will kick them out without saying anything
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@JustBhem (52373)
• Davao, Philippines
25 May
And I wish I can do that. Sigh.