Finishing the Attachment.... / myLot

New Delhi, India

May 25, 2019 11:20pm CST

So today morning, I started my day on a crazy note. My maid called me downstairs in kitchen and started crying and saying, I wish I could let everyone go away, I want to finish all kind of attachments from my family. Now this, I was wondering whether you finish the attachment or not both the views are right. I know that attachment is proportional to the amount of hurt we receive from the other person's end, so the amount of attachment defines the amount of hurt. Lesser the attachment= Lesser the hurt and pain. But, I do understand it will difficult to build relationships without attachment. But the attachment should be such that you don't lose yourself, your vision, your perspective. A better version of you can help in forming a better life for the people around you.

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Simone

@Janet357 (75638)

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26 May 19

Sometimes it is good to be not too close and not too far from the people around us

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11433)

• New Delhi, India

31 May 19

@cacay1 agreeing to you and @Janet357

Simone

@Janet357 (75638)

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1 Jun 19

@cacay1 well we need to forgive in order to be forgiven as well by God Jah.

Danna B.

@db20747 (43419)

• Washington, District Of Columbia

26 May 19

We need to be attached!! Sometimes when this is broken we will get hurt! But sooner or later we will find another attachment!!

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prashu

@prashu228 (37518)

• India

26 May 19

Attachment is necessary ,of course we get hurt and that's life. we can't escape it. we will be attached to one or the other till we go..

Judy Story

@jstory07 (148701)

• Roseburg, Oregon

26 May 19

It is hard sometimes to build attachments to people around you.

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Jojo

@Sojourn (13833)

• India

26 May 19

I have always followed this principle to build friendships ,but other people realize it sooner or latter.

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Nocturnal Writer

@Nakitakona (59987)

• Philippines

26 May 19

Sorry I need a clarification. What do you mean by attachment?

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11433)

• New Delhi, India

26 May 19

Attachment probably means the set of bonding and expectations that we build with people around us

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Nocturnal Writer

@Nakitakona (59987)

• Philippines

27 May 19

@Aansh13 Either it is a friendship, brotherhood, or any relationship. I just want to clarify it. An intimate relationship is difficult to break. If it does, it's devastating.

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