Finishing the Attachment....

@Aansh13 (11251)
New Delhi, India
May 25, 2019 11:20pm CST
So today morning, I started my day on a crazy note. My maid called me downstairs in kitchen and started crying and saying, I wish I could let everyone go away, I want to finish all kind of attachments from my family. Now this, I was wondering whether you finish the attachment or not both the views are right. I know that attachment is proportional to the amount of hurt we receive from the other person's end, so the amount of attachment defines the amount of hurt. Lesser the attachment= Lesser the hurt and pain. But, I do understand it will difficult to build relationships without attachment. But the attachment should be such that you don't lose yourself, your vision, your perspective. A better version of you can help in forming a better life for the people around you.
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Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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26 May 19
Sometimes it is good to be not too close and not too far from the people around us
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 May 19
@Janet357 , so true, sometimes our problems derive from them, but because of love and being us, we cannot deprive them in our lives especially if they need us.
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 May 19
@Aansh13 thanks for the attached agreement,lol.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
31 May 19
@cacay1 agreeing to you and @Janet357
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (134388)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 May 19
It is hard sometimes to build attachments to people around you.
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 May 19
@jstory07 , so true from relatives, friends,neighbors, lovers, suitors, ex, workmates and more
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 May 19
It's better to have no string attached
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 May 19
@Aansh13 yeah, up here, very hard to achieve a perfect life.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
31 May 19
True... But that's difficult to achieve
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43426)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
26 May 19
We need to be attached!! Sometimes when this is broken we will get hurt! But sooner or later we will find another attachment!!
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Jojo
@Sojourn (13836)
• India
26 May 19
I have always followed this principle to build friendships ,but other people realize it sooner or latter.
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Nocturnal Writer
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
26 May 19
Sorry I need a clarification. What do you mean by attachment?
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
26 May 19
Attachment probably means the set of bonding and expectations that we build with people around us
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 May 19
@Nakitakona, this is an implied word to mean many like, stalkers in our lives, or extended family.
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Nocturnal Writer
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
27 May 19
@Aansh13 Either it is a friendship, brotherhood, or any relationship. I just want to clarify it. An intimate relationship is difficult to break. If it does, it's devastating.
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prashu
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
26 May 19
Attachment is necessary ,of course we get hurt and that's life. we can't escape it. we will be attached to one or the other till we go..
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 May 19
@prashu228 , the only thing to do, no choice for it also hurts us to see them hurt.
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