Do Not Underestimate Yourself

@CarolDM (203396)
Nashville, Tennessee
June 2, 2019 3:12pm CST
Another quote to share with you. This has happened to me many times early in my life. Then I realized it is ok to be different and unique. In fact, I prefer being that way. ...Do not underestimate yourself by comparing yourself with others. It's our differences that make us unique and beautiful. We are all unique. I have never been anyone but myself. And if I am different, that is a compliment. I would not want to be anyone else. Your thoughts on this quote?
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
2 Jun 19
Unfortunately, I have a tendency to underestimate myself.
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• United States
2 Jun 19
aw, that makes my heart sad. 'nfortunately, we've been told since we 's to how we need to 'fit in' versus jest bein' ourselves. our 'ccomplishments, 'nstead 'f bein' praised, compared to that 'f others. not fair to ones psyche 's yer not'n knowledge 'f the others yer bein' compared to've done to reach such. 'sides, ya can only be the best you, 'n that's perfectly alright :)
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Jun 19
@crazyhorseladycx Yes, too much pressure has been put on many these days to be a certain way.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Jun 19
We all have done it, but learning not to do it is empowering.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
2 Jun 19
And I always liked to be different, special, I never wanted to be like the majority, only if someone accepted me.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Jun 19
We all accept you here, right?
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• United States
2 Jun 19
takes a special person to 'ppreciate such attributes'n 'nother. that person'd be out there, ya jest aint crossed paths yet. 'n the meantime, ya got's :)
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
3 Jun 19
@CarolDM Yes, you've all really welcomed me.
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@wolfgirl569 (135583)
• Marion, Ohio
3 Jun 19
I try to only compare myself to people worth trying to be more like
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Jun 19
That is a great attitude my friend
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@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
2 Jun 19
I sometimes compare in relationship to accomplishments; but I shouldn't because I have accomplishments of my own.
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• United States
2 Jun 19
we've sorta been brainwashed from youth to do jest that sadly. i hope ya work'n seein' yerself shine'n not worry 'bout other folks.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Jun 19
We probably all tend to do it, but when you get to where you don't, it is the best feeling.
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@dya80dya (36805)
2 Jun 19
I think it's better to be different.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Jun 19
Yes that is my point, and I agree Diana.
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• Rupert, Idaho
3 Jun 19
I like this one, very good...and so true! And I posted mine with sort of the same comment -- I am weird, but that is a compliment :)
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Jun 19
You are not weird, you are you!
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Jun 19
@MommyOfEli2013 I understand, same here!
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• Rupert, Idaho
4 Jun 19
@CarolDM Thank you, I don't mind being weird though :) lol
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
3 Jun 19
I never compare myself to others. For me, it is not a healthy thing to practice in our lives. I must say that some people think that I am weird about my own thing. I don't mind. It is who really I am in this world.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
4 Jun 19
@CarolDM Some people cannot get it sometimes. Moreover, it is their own business anyway, right?
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Jun 19
@Shavkat Yes you are right.
@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Jun 19
That is true and my point exactly.
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
4 Jun 19
It is just so true. Many of us do compare ourselves to others and should do this or ever underestimate ourselves.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Jun 19
Indeed, i agree with you Pat.
• United States
2 Jun 19
i've thought've havin' such tattooed :) yup, like't that much. we need folks who're diverse, think outside the box 'n such - helps balance out the rest who take 'emselves way too serious, lol.
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• United States
2 Jun 19
@CarolDM jest kiddin' 'bout the tattoo, lol. i'd ne'er get such. need to get a t-shirt 'nstead?
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Jun 19
Glad you agree, a tattoo would be one way to go.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Jun 19
@crazyhorseladycx I thought so. A t-shirt sounds better.
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
4 Jun 19
I love this quote and totally agree with it. But, I do think it is one of the most difficult things for most people to do. We naturally compare ourselves to others.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Jun 19
Yes I agree it is hard to do but so important not to do.
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@parpande (1515)
• Bangalore, India
4 Jun 19
@CarolDM I can`t dictate that underestimate self for me but I can say for comparisons. We all must have bumped in a state of comparison to anyone better than us , my stand is certainly we are all individually distinct though concurrency of likes/dislikes/ambitions are everywhere. But it is not unfair to inspire ourselves by any tendency of someone that is impressive , we should look for improvements as well . How can a person just be him all the time and if that bubble exists there may not be a room for role models .
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Jun 19
I am talking about peer pressure, where some thin they have to be a certain way, and like a certain person. Not looking up to people, as you have referenced. We should have role models. But peer pressure is rampant these days.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
3 Jun 19
I love it!
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Jun 19
That is great to hear!
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@didinedhia (8482)
• Algeria
4 Jun 19
i really like this one
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Jun 19
Glad to hear.
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• Algeria
4 Jun 19
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• United States
12 Jun 19
Variety is the spice of life if we where all the same we would live a very boring existance.We are all unique and special and original. different strokes for different folks I would rather be noticed for being different then not get noticed at all.The world would be a better place if we accepted each other difference and respected one another for them because we all them.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Jun 19
You are so right, we should accept each other no matter what.
@Hate2Iron (15724)
• Canada
3 Jun 19
I'm working on this at least... I have this idea that I have to be perfect!!
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Jun 19
Working on it is good to hear. Same here!
@jstory07 (148701)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Jun 19
I have always wanted to be different because I never wanted to copy others. I wanted to do my own thing.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Jun 19
Same here, I am my own self.
@amadeo (111937)
• United States
2 Jun 19
I am what I am.What you see is what you get.On all right I know t his is silly.What can I say
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Jun 19
Absolutely my friend. You are not being silly, you are you!
@ShifaLk (17811)
• India
3 Jun 19
Yes very true. We feel low only when we compare..
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Jun 19
Yes you are right.
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• Sonora, California
3 Jun 19
Yes I love this one, we are meant to be individuals not cookie cutter molds!
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Jun 19
Exactly right my friend.