Who has been strict one…... MOM or DAD…?

@Aansh13 (11433)
New Delhi, India
June 8, 2019 12:11pm CST
I remember, my Dad has always been cool, he never scolded me much. I have never seen him loosing his temper or even saying much about anything even to my younger brother. Only thing he has ever been adamant to was about our studies and career. Contrary to how my Mom has been, she is one strong women. She has been a controlling freak. May be its women’s nature or whatever. She was the stricter one. How has it been on your side…???
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
8 Jun 19
I was brought up by single mom. She is an independent woman and being a psychologist herself, she very well brought us up. She never raised her voice but we very well knew the limits. I am doing the same with my children though I might not be as good as her. I don't scold or scream but my children know the rules of the house and where to set the limits.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
9 Jun 19
@Aansh13 She is an iron Lady and really look up to her.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
9 Jun 19
That's an amazing point... I am so fascinated by your mother, honestly....
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@nela13 (59367)
• Portugal
8 Jun 19
I can't say my parents were too strict, both were super parents
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@nela13 (59367)
• Portugal
8 Jun 19
@Aansh13 I feel blessed for having my parents.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 19
Cool that is.... Lucky you
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
8 Jun 19
My parents tried their best to raise us children. My father had a bad temper and I was a bit troublesome. However once I matured and became responsible I never had any problems with either of my parents. They were generous and helpful right to the end.
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
9 Jun 19
@Aansh13 Good that we both changed!
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@Porcospino (31365)
• Denmark
9 Jun 19
My father was very strict and he often lost his temper. He got extremely angry when my brother and I didn't follow his rules. My mother is very different. She never screamed at us and she is very calm and very kind.
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@Porcospino (31365)
• Denmark
9 Jun 19
@Aansh13 That is true. I had one strict parent and one that wasn't strict at all, so I got a bit of both.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
9 Jun 19
Wow! So there is a balance
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@psanasangma (7910)
• India
8 Jun 19
I know, remind me of my old days, how mother always ask me to complete homework, household task but father is always, if you can't study go to bed and sleep but get up early in the morning and study but mother, is mother, She will always say NO NO
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 19
As I mentioned, Moms loves controlling
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• India
8 Jun 19
@Aansh13 My Question to them will be WHy ? why ? There answers to me will be " When you are mother you will know" ! One day you will realize ha ha
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
9 Jun 19
@psanasangma oh that's every next mother saying to there daughters
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• Agra, India
8 Jun 19
None of my parents had been very strict. But dad usually avoided scolding me.
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• Agra, India
9 Jun 19
@Aansh13 I agree. All fathers keep their daughters as princess
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
9 Jun 19
Dad's don't scold their daughter's much
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
17 Jun 19
We were lucky to have very wall balanced parents.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
18 Jun 19
My mom was more of the disciplinarian and conscience in our family. She made sure to instill proper values and behavior and to correct us when we were out of line. My Dad set a great example to follow through his behavior and the values he lived by. You did not want to do anything which would anger my Dad though. He was not physical but cast a strong presence.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
18 Jun 19
Great
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• United States
17 Jun 19
My father was the strict controlling one when it came to my parents.
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• United States
17 Jun 19
I was raised by a single mother (until she finally met my stepdad). She was and still is a great mom and always supported my creativity but she also knew when to keep me in line. I hope to be half as good of a parent that she was to me when that time comes
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
17 Jun 19
Great! Actually I wish the same... Hoping to be half as good as my parents
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• United States
8 Jun 19
Neither of my parents were strict. I basically got to do whatever I wanted to do.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 19
Wow! That's great