Do you like talking to a stranger?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
June 11, 2019 3:33am CST
In every aspect of life, we tend to meet people of whom we can get easily talk with and unfortunately get hook up. We unfold a feeling of contenment and fun at the same time by simply hanging and talking with them in a just a small amount of time. Then we parted ways with them occasionally and we tend to miss that kind of feeling. I have that moment too. Whenever I rush to the ER because of some complication, I was left in the corner in oxygen, watching people walking pass by me, worried and sick. And there is that one person who’s curiosity is in motion, will ask you what happen to you. Before answering them, my thoughts will ask me, should I talk to them or not? Then a minute later, I was them, sharing the same experiences inside the ER.
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
11 Jun 19
If someone talk to me, I usually reply, unless they are just "nosy". I do not reply to personal questions.
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
11 Jun 19
@JustBhem When I wait for my husband at the hospital and I see someone who seems in pain or with a problem I usually ask if I can help, but never personal questions.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
@LadyDuck Oh, we come to that point.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
We can almost feel it if a stranger ask us personal information.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
11 Jun 19
Unless the need arises I will not
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
I see. So do you call yourself a snob at times?
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
11 Jun 19
@JustBhem I am a snob at all times
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
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@LeaPea2417 (36399)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Jun 19
I think the person asking what happened to you is just genuinely being nice.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
Yes, but sometimes if I feel pain, I don’t talk to them.
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@Mamerto32 (2783)
• Canlubang, Philippines
11 Jun 19
In this day and age, no. I'm very aloof when walking in the street. I tend to not trust strangers. With all the warnings regarding con artists, it's more as survival rather than manners.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
I also have that kind of moment, like I feel I don’t need to trust people.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
@Mamerto32 Woah, really? And how they did they cope up?
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@Mamerto32 (2783)
• Canlubang, Philippines
12 Jun 19
@JustBhem and just recently someone I know lost a large amount from a swindler posing as a business person.
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@Janet357 (75656)
12 Jun 19
I talk to strangers, but it all depends on the situation. I do ministry so i meet strangers all the time.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
I see, so talking to strangers is not a bad thing anymore for you. That’s good.
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@evans777 (1454)
11 Jun 19
How else can one make new friends?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
Of course by talking to a stranger. Lol
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
@evans777 And that’s a good way to start a conversation.
@evans777 (1454)
11 Jun 19
@JustBhem yeah. Me personally, I like starting with a joke, once you smile or giggle I take it as a welcome sign
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
11 Jun 19
I often talk to strangers. A stranger can be a friend that I didn't know.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
12 Jun 19
@JustBhem Yes, that happens also!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
Or you have a mutual friend, that’s interesting, right?
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
11 Jun 19
Sometimes I talk to strangers. I have had some nice conversations with some of the people I met when I was travelling. It depends who the other person is. Sometimes strangers act friendly, but they actually want to sell something or they have other intentions, so it depends on my impression of the other person.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
Sometime we tend to talk to someone if we feel bored or simply we need to have someone to talk to.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
12 Jun 19
@JustBhem That is true. Sometimes it is nice to talk to strangers for a while for instance while are travelling. When we were travelling in Europe, we met many tourists from other countries. One of them was a real estate agent and she gave us some useful advice (we were trying to sell our house at that time)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
@Porcospino That is the good thing about talking to a stranger too, it will give us good information.
@May2k8 (18049)
• Indonesia
12 Jun 19
Sometimes I talking to a stranger, if stranger ask me very personally probably I will prevent them.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
Yes, that’s above already.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Jun 19
I choose the strangers I talk too. Maybe the person was kind looking and not like just being too nosey but concerned. That is why you lightened up with her and talked with her.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Jun 19
@JustBhem Yes, that is true. Facial expression is indeed one that I look at when talking to strangers.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
I also choose people I talk to. I care about their facial expression too much. One time, I was waiting for the boyfriend to carry me, when an adult lady ask me and her facial expression was something like I have some kind of disease, what I did. I did not talk to her and move out.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Jun 19
@SIMPLYD Me too.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
11 Jun 19
I'm a very shy type person, but I'm active talking on the internet, that's why my friends was surprised that I'm so noisy at chatting but too quiet in person
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
11 Jun 19
@JustBhem I didn't eat introvert but yeah I'm an introvert, I really into staying at home and using my spare time in learning and making money
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
So you ate introvert?
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
11 Jun 19
Well.... Not really.... I don't talk to strangers... But may be at the time of emergency or a situation that need me to talk... I would talk...
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
I see. Sometimes we have that hesitation, right?
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
11 Jun 19
@JustBhem yeah!!!! Plus the stereotype.... Girls don't talk first
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
@Aansh13 Oh yes. Mostly, guys will do the talking.
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@didinedhia (8475)
• Algeria
11 Jun 19
yes i really like it
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
That’s good.
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• Algeria
12 Jun 19
@JustBhem thank you
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
11 Jun 19
I have no problem talking to anyone. Of course, if it does not go beyond the boundary of a cultural talk
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
Yes, that’s cool too.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
@LowRiderX Sometimes we have that moment too that we don’t like talking at all.
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
11 Jun 19
@JustBhem I know a lot of people who do not like it, who are silent, I'm not like that, maybe it's good and maybe not
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
11 Jun 19
Depends on the person and the situation. Many times in person unless I feel they are someone I can easily relate with and talk with I tend to keep quiet. Because if it is someone I will see a lot besides then many times I want to feel them out before saying much.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
There are times we are like that too.
@much2say (53909)
• Los Angeles, California
11 Jun 19
I am talking to strangers all the time . . . I seem open but I am always cautious about people's intentions (you never know, this is a crazy world). In most cases it is just chit chatting for the moment - and I am cool with that.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
A chit chat will do.
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
12 Jun 19
I have no boundaries to interact with strangers. I love networking with people and I always mind my limits of not asking very personal questions to them. So, I also believe they wouldn't ask me, either!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
It’s more of a casual conversation, right?
@JESSY3236 (18885)
• United States
11 Jun 19
Sometimes. Depends on the person.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jun 19
Of course, we can feel if the person is nice or nosy.
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@raveeen (3457)
11 Jun 19
I talk to strangers like asking them if I feel like I'm lost in a place haha I mean how/where will be the direction if I'll go to this and that place and also as long as a one stranger needs help or what I'll not hesitate to help him/her, I\'m not snob.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
I see. And that’s safe.
• United States
11 Jun 19
i believe that we all came into the earth as strangers and it is our choice on whether we want to interact and talk with one another to form a friendship and bond. I believe that if we never talked to each other what a boring world this would be.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 19
I agree. Nice thought there.