Instead of apology...stop talking...

@Aansh13 (3480)
India
June 13, 2019 3:02am CST
My long lost friend called me today, she asked me some help to which I readily said yes. But after that she said" why did you stopped talking to me...?" To that I said, I didn't stop actually you stopped talking after our small argument almost an year back. She kept on insisting she did not... Something that I can recall, there was an argument between us. I expected her to apologise because she said certain extremely mean things. But instead of doing that she stopped talking. And now, after almost an year... She is calling me to ask for help because now she is in need. On top of it, she is also blaming me for not staying in touch. I have always valued friendship, I value it even now so I got ready to help her but I can't put my dignity at stake .... My self-respect is above everything.
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@tech40 (14845)
• Philippines
13 Jun
It just happened that there are some people who have a high pride
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@Aansh13 (3480)
• India
13 Jun
Yeah! True...
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@tech40 (14845)
• Philippines
13 Jun
@Aansh13 Yeah that's why I totally ignore and forget those type of people, they're a type of people who doesn't or can't accept their mistakes
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@Aansh13 (3480)
• India
13 Jun
@tech40 Very true
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@hereandthere (36962)
• Philippines
13 Jun
what kind of help does she need - money?
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@Aansh13 (3480)
• India
13 Jun
Yeah!!!!
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• Philippines
13 Jun
@Aansh13 i had a feeling it was
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@Sreekala (31561)
• India
13 Jun
I really appreciate your helping mentality even though you got bitter experience with her. For me, if I hate someone then it is forever. I do not hate anyone easily, but if any one started to do something against me, and taken advantage on my good heart, then blame me later, sorry something I can't digest. I won't pick the call if the person calls me after a long gap.
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@Aansh13 (3480)
• India
13 Jun
I used to be like this... But now have changed my thought process
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@jstory07 (79131)
• Roseburg, Oregon
13 Jun
Sometimes you have to forgive and forget.
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@parpande (1071)
• Bangalore, India
14 Jun
@Aansh13 Did nt you say that 'dignity' line to her??
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@Aansh13 (3480)
• India
14 Jun
I did... But not the straight way...
@raveeen (1425)
13 Jun
I also had that kind of friend.. they're 2. and I just want to share something based on your title Instead of apology...stop talking... I really hate those kind of people who'll say sorry to you/ apologize to you and will do again the reason why you both argued
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@Aansh13 (3480)
• India
13 Jun
Hahaha... That's another set of crazy people
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@moonandstars (16343)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Jun
If it's one sided, it's horrible.
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@Shavkat (75118)
• Philippines
13 Jun
Some people are like this. I just stay away from them.
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@Nakitakona (4103)
13 Jun
Let bygone be bygone. Forget the past. If you want to help her, go ahead.