Do you have your sad days too?
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
June 13, 2019 7:18pm CST
My eyes are fluffy right now.
I cried last night.
I was having a bad moment last night.
Thinking about the boyfriend’s decision to go abroad to work, me thinking of myself, my situation. It’s like I’m the ill-fated one in the world.
I feel so down and no one understands me.
I know that there will be answers to all these.
But still hurting me.
Please enlighten me my virtual friends.
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
14 Jun 19
Yes, I do have sad days too.
How long is his abroad job going to be..
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@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
15 Jun 19
@JustBhemThat is something that should be discussed. Duration of this abroad job? Benefits? Is it worth it? I'm sorry he ended up deciding without consulting with you. Even though it's his decision in the end, it would be nice to include you and your thoughts.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Jun 19
@infatuatedbby
That’s the sad part, he never consulted me with his plans. He decided it by himself.
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@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
14 Jun 19
I can fully understand your situation there feeling helpless and everything that seems life is unfair to you. Having those feeling is a typical reaction when you are confronted with many dilemmas in life. The best thing that you can do about it is to tackle each and every problem one at a time and to find someone to confide to. If you feel alone and unsupported find someone to support you. A support group like a religious group or a psychologist might help you with it. If this sadness lingers on for a couple of weeks and there are thoughts of no hope then you might be going through the clinical depression which means that you really need help from professionals to deal with it.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
14 Jun 19
I know you are feeling down with your boyfriend's decision and that you will be left alone with no one but maybe he is thinking that it will help you both financially. I hope both of you trust and respect each other to make this work for both of you
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@Michellekidwell (29260)
• Sonora, California
14 Jun 19
We all have our sad days, I am sort you are experiencing this now, I will be praying for you!
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@Poppylicious (11133)
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14 Jun 19
There is nothing selfish about worrying about being alone and unable to cope without his physical day-to-day support. He will make more money in Dubai? Maybe enough for the two of you to find your own place to live? I would like to think that he would wait until your hip recovery is more complete so that you can be more independent.
Just be sure not to give him an ultimatum, or insist he makes a choice, or make him feel guilty about living his own life. Encourage and support him, as he encourages and supports you.
It worries me that you feel he is your only support. We should never have reliance upon just one other person. Life and circumstances can change in the blink of an eye.
I feel for you, and I hope that the decision you make - AS A COUPLE! - is right and fair, and has a happy outcome.
*huggles*
@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
14 Jun 19
I think this is for the sake of your future both. If you've trusted him and he is now very firm with his decision the only thing you can do now is to support him...
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