Do we have to answer everyone..

By Sky
@skysnap (20152)
June 25, 2019 12:03am CST
When we are struggling in life, people tend to attack us for our situation. They make fun of everything they find wrong about us. And that can be pretty insulting .. and if you keep on ignoring it, they take you for granted. And that can be irritating as well. So I wonder do we have to answer everyone or should we pick and choose? How do people stay assertive?
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Angie
@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Jun 19
Don`t talk about you situation and they know nothing about you to make fun.
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Sky
@skysnap (20152)
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25 Jun 19
good point. but it may not work within family right?
Mrki Krki
@mrki444 (15162)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
25 Jun 19
Than they will assume something about you. Trust me, I already was in similar situation.
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sophie a
@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
25 Jun 19
i choose to ignore them, in my life, when my friends being silly or annoying i just ignore them and sooner or later they slowly stop being such annoying :)
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Sky
@skysnap (20152)
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25 Jun 19
to some extent ignoring works.
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Jaya singh
@Starkinds (32737)
• India
25 Jun 19
Right I'm agreed with you
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sophie a
@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
25 Jun 19
@skysnap if you have tried ignoring them and they still be like that, maybe, try to talk back to them in a nice way might work (?)
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scarlet_woman
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
25 Jun 19
nope.i only deal with those people so long and then that's it. i'm too old to be dealing with people's opinions anymore.i've got no patience for it.
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Sky
@skysnap (20152)
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25 Jun 19
yeah pretty much same i think
Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Jun 19
At least we answer them nicely it’s up to them if they think other thinhs.
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Sky
@skysnap (20152)
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25 Jun 19
yes tried once with nice talk.
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Simone
@Janet357 (75638)
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25 Jun 19
we.sometimes encounter some people like that. the best.way is.to.stay away from them
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Sky
@skysnap (20152)
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25 Jun 19
yes moving away to some extent works but relatives and family its harder.
Nocturnal Writer
@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
It depends on the weight or the importance of the situations. Bullying is the all time practice of the aggressive individual. But if you fight them back they whimper like a coward dog.
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Sky
@skysnap (20152)
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25 Jun 19
good point.
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Nocturnal Writer
@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
@skysnap Thanks
pumpkinjam
@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
26 Jun 19
I tend to share certain things only with people who need to know or people I think could help. There are times when I find myself explaining myself to others. Then I realise I'm doing it and ask myself why I am doing it.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
25 Jun 19
It is better to ignore those kind of people. Ignore them completely and no need to care how they felt. Time will prove your good intention.
Shavkat
@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
Personally, I don't need to explain myself to others.
crazyhorseladycx
@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
25 Jun 19
sometimes i think they do such coz they see that weakness'n 'emselves. personally, i'd not give 'em the time 'f day nor let 'em know such bothered me.
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Sky
@skysnap (20152)
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25 Jun 19
yeah i kind of seen that too.
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Mrki Krki
@mrki444 (15162)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
25 Jun 19
Go as far you can from those people.
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Sky
@skysnap (20152)
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25 Jun 19
true but it's not going to be an easy thing though.
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