To each their own here at myLot

@allknowing (130067)
India
June 25, 2019 11:16pm CST
As long as rules are not broken it is not right that users are criticized for the manner in which they participate here at myLot. There are several factors that contribute to how a myLotter works here. So live and let live.
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@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
26 Jun 19
That is unfortunate. Luckily we have only a few that belong to that category. Most of the users here are friendly and supportive.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
26 Jun 19
That is a good thing we do not have many
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
26 Jun 19
@arunima25 These users do not realise when they point out what is right and what is wrong here that tends to make people uncomfortable if they belong to the 'wrong' side.
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@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
26 Jun 19
@allknowing So far I have come across only one and I made my points firm to the user and then ignored it when it started getting a little bitter from other side. I here to relax and have friends.
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@LadyDuck (457249)
• Switzerland
26 Jun 19
I fully agree, but a limit to the number of discussion posted should be stated. It happens that the "Most Recent Discussions" page is full of discussions from the same user.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
26 Jun 19
But the strange thing is they are not breaking rules. Having said that the time zone factor plays a huge role in discussions getting hidden of those belonging to certain time zones at times when most users are online myLot is certainly not a level playing field.
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@LadyDuck (457249)
• Switzerland
26 Jun 19
@allknowing I know that it is not against the rules and many of those discussions are later deleted because they break the rules. I was considering that they should implement a rule on "no more than xx discussion per hour", we had this in Bubblews.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
26 Jun 19
@LadyDuck If they are deleted then they have broken rules
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@rsa101 (37933)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
I guess you are right there if there is no violation then you are safe to post in here.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
26 Jun 19
But there are some 'holier than thou's' who keep running down others. They want it all laid down for others.
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@rsa101 (37933)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@allknowing I just ignore them when I happen to chance upon them. I think that they are really around in here and will continue to preach their own thing in here.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
26 Jun 19
@rsa101 I read a post singing the praises of some and criticising some others. These kind of discussions vitiate the atmosphere and some even feeling guilty that they are doing something wrong
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
I do agree with you on that.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
26 Jun 19
This kind of reflects their behaviour in their real life
@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
26 Jun 19
Obviously you have noticed some criticising and negative things going on.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
26 Jun 19
They do not realise what effect such discussions have on those who do not toe their line
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@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
26 Jun 19
@allknowing I find people who think their opinion i the only one so annoying that I end up avoiding them. What makes them think thy are better than anyone else!
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
What you write is what you are. But there are times that you should be tough. And it's not a healthy thing to do. Finding fault is easy but who are we to find other's fault for we're not perfect neither.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
26 Jun 19
They do not realise by doing so they create an unhealthy environment.
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@allknowing I think they know it. They're fully aware what they're doing. So what I did was to forget them and take another set of myLot users who aren't arrogant, know-it-all.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
26 Jun 19
You are right. It is up to us how to interact here.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Jun 19
But we cannot tolerate rudeness and arrogance here. This site is for people who enjoy and having fun here.
@debjani1 (7207)
26 Jun 19
Just follow the proper rules and enjoy. I am happy with this site and their rules.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
26 Jun 19
I too (lol)
@didinedhia (8475)
• Algeria
28 Jun 19
totally agree with you
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