Is she really that insecure?!
@ricki_911 (21625)
Toronto, Ontario
June 27, 2019 4:39pm CST
Today at work as expected the owner was all nice as oie. But for me I feel she fake and tries too hard.
I personally think shes unhappy, jealous and insecure. She always tried to compete or if i say something she makes comments.
Today she starts making fun of my parking job. Starts woman like you give us a bad name (nah, I'm almost legally blind and you need to stoop so low that you need to make yourself feel better how pathetic).
She starts bragging her kids and her are in therapy like uts normal. Sorry, that's nothing to brag that you failed as a parent and now need a lady to talk then in doing dishes.
I asked her as tomorrow a holiday and busy (we have 20 orders but a normal day). Should I come in early since it take me 49 mins to drive in I'd like to know beforehand. She replies I'm not you I can do it myself (until tomorrow when she starts screaming).
I just found she's always doing this at me. I find she insecure and jealous of me so she needs to make herself better than me.
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@ihasaquestion (8274)
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28 Jun 19
Maybe you are insecure of her instead? If you're going around thinking what she's thinking of the whole time, then you might have a problem there.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
28 Jun 19
When she verbally attacking me for an hour over how I'm parking. She screams at us majority of the shift. She needs to be better than me. The cook mentioned this yesterday as she was verbally attacking me for my parking (which to me isnt a big deal I was on a slight slant).
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
28 Jun 19
She also has made comments how she does the job better, or stop doing something because she cant be bet in it. To me shows she's insecure and competing with me. I'm here for a paycheque ans work but she causing a toxic work environment with her insecurities and jealously.
@ihasaquestion (8274)
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29 Jun 19
@ricki_911 Maybe you are also toxic by being passive aggressive and gossiping about her now..
Take the high road and show you are kinder..
There are many people who backstab and gossip but will scream murder when others do it..at least she's vocal and not sneaky and quiet; while plotting her next move on you..
Me thinks you are jealous too because she knows how to voice out and have a different work style than you. I'm not picking sides but think about this. If she screams at you, that's because you do the same mistakes like a gazillion times and on purpose too. I'm sure you have flaws as well. Just saying as a friend. Everyone's toxic.
Like she's not on a forum talking bout you, but you are. So, whose more insecure now.. 
I've seen people talking about others but are toxic themselves too. So everyone is, just be good in our own ways. She can't be you, and you can't be her. So, stop changing each other.
I've seen people talking about others but are toxic themselves too. So everyone is, just be good in our own ways. She can't be you, and you can't be her. So, stop changing each other.
