Do you like to wait?

@JustBhem (56143)
Davao, Philippines
July 10, 2019 6:43pm CST
I’m worried at the moment since my younger Brother is no longer sleeping here, he is with his girlfriend. He said he will be here last night to help me take a bath, we waited for over 3 hours and he did not come. Then he messaged me telling me he can’t make it because his girlfriend is not yet done with her pedicure. The thought make me mad. Why he can’t leave the girlfriend for awhile and come back when she is done. Why he needs to wait for her. I told him to come by here today to help me take a bath because it’s my treatment Thursday. I haven’t heard from him now, but it’s okay I still have time to wait. It’s 7:43 AM here. Hopefully, I won’t wait too long for him today.
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@RubyHawk (34170)
• Atlanta, Georgia
11 Jul
I hope he gets there to help you, I'm sorry you have to wait for him. I hope your treatment goes well Thursday.
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
Yes, he was here awhile ago and help me to bath and prepare my clothes to wear later. But then it seemed like his moves are too fast, he went right away
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@RubyHawk (34170)
• Atlanta, Georgia
13 Jul
@JustBhem Too bad he couldn't take his time and stay awhile with you.
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
13 Jul
@RubyHawk Yes, because he need to be with her instead of me.
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@infatuatedbby (101103)
• United States
12 Jul
I'm sorry to hear that. Is there anyone else that can help you with the bath if he isn't there?
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jul
No one. Other siblings are too busy to help me.
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• United States
12 Jul
@JustBhem I am sorry to hear that. :( Did he end up helping you out.
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jul
@infatuatedbby Yesterday. yes. But he was in a hurry.
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@marguicha (122143)
• Chile
11 Jul
I hope that he will be there when you need him.
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
I hope so or I’ll be doomed. It’s my treatment, I can’t go to the center not taking a bath.
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@marguicha (122143)
• Chile
11 Jul
@JustBhem Has he been like this before?
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
@marguicha Nope. Since his girlfriend went to Germany, he thinks nothing but our welfare. Now that his girlfriend is here for a month vacation, I doubt he will be here the rest of the month.
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• United States
11 Jul
I am sorry that your brother is being that way. I hope he comes around soon to assist you. It sounds as if the girlfriend might be being a little manipulative. Or perhaps it's just puppy love?
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
I go for manipulative since she is a transgender and mu Brother is too young for her.
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• United States
11 Jul
@JustBhem Oh I see. Does he pay for her manicure appointments? Does she make him pay for a lot of things?
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
@ScribbledAdNauseum My Brother doesn’t have money, most of the time his girlfriend pays everything, I think she thinks of my Brother as a pet not a lover.
• Wheat Ridge, Colorado
11 Jul
I guess it is up to that girlfriend what he does.
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
Sometimes I feel bad for my Brother having a relationship with a Transgender woman.
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• Wheat Ridge, Colorado
11 Jul
@JustBhem Yes it would be okay if the person was good to him but apparently not..sad.
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
@TiarasOceanView Maybe in some point she was to him but not to us.
@brokenbee (8606)
• Philippines
11 Jul
Maybe you need to find someone to take his place for a while, while he is busy with something or someone else.
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
There is no one I can trust beside him.
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@brokenbee (8606)
• Philippines
11 Jul
@JustBhem aww.. that's sad to know..
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@JudyEv (164246)
• Bunbury, Australia
11 Jul
I hope he remembers his responsibility to you
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
Yes, fortunately he did just awhile ago. He took me to bath and now I’m fresh.
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@db20747 (20790)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
11 Jul
Hope he gets there soon!! Next time u could explain this to him!!
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
I almost get mad and fortunately he came and help me to bath.
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@rakski (33950)
• Philippines
11 Jul
that is sad to hear. I hope he comes home soon to help you
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
Yes, he did. After taking me to bath and prepare my things, he goes away.
@Ladanger (7341)
• United States
11 Jul
Wow so sad. If you lived here in United states i would be your friend even though now we are basically mutual friends. That is why family doesn't mean same blood.
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@JustBhem (56143)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jul
Sometimes I agree with that thought. Family is nothing when it comes to a relationship.
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@cacay1 (42607)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Jul
It should be his girlfriend to push your brother to go home and bath you. That girlfriend is so ridiculous.Where on Earth could we find a girlfriend like her having her pedicure early morning, so weird.