Are You Judgemental???

@amandajay (23264)
New Zealand
July 15, 2019 6:27am CST
Most people are judgemental... yes that’s true... specially in my home country SriLanka. People humiliate others for anything. Mostly they judge women than men... I really don’t like this.... I hate people who are judgmental Let me give you some examples- 1. If a woman had few love affairs, she is Female dog (can’t use that one word here. Lol) 2. If a man handle few women at once, he is a super man 3. If a women wear nicely and looks younger than her age, she has emptied his husbands pocket for her beauty products 4. Once you are married and having kids, you can’t do fashion and you can’t think about your figure. If you do so, you are not a good mum or wife. These are only few, there are more... I heard two ladies talking about another lady at the mall today (they are from SriLanka). Oh disgusting.... Reminds me that “a leopard cannot change it’s spots”
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@LindaOHio (155562)
• United States
15 Jul 19
Sri Lanka doesn't sound like a fun place.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
18 Jul 19
Oh not at all, that’s why I never liked SriLanka
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
17 Jul 19
Some of these examples in male-female relationships are also used in other countries (I do not think it matters to you but I'm just saying)
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
19 Jul 19
@LowRiderX oh i see. It's bad when people judge others without walking on their shoes
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
18 Jul 19
I see. I thought these happen in Asian countries only
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@LowRiderX (22907)
• Serbia
18 Jul 19
@amandajay No, not at all, I know for a few examples
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• United States
16 Jul 19
Yep that happens around here too.
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• United States
19 Jul 19
@amandajay Oh no, happens here also!
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
19 Jul 19
@infatuatedbby Oh thats bad... I thoughts it's typical Asians,, but it seems not
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
18 Jul 19
Oh that’s wired I thought only in Asian countries
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• United States
19 Jul 19
I try not to judge anyone, because I am far from perfect, but at times, I guess I do, but shouldn't.
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• United States
20 Jul 19
@amandajay It's hard not to, but then again, I get judged too, so it is done to all of us.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
19 Jul 19
haha yes Im an imperfect person too. so I never judge people. lol
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
20 Jul 19
@CookieMonster46 yes true. Most people are like that
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@just4him (305561)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Jul 19
I'm sorry you come under so much judgment in your country. I try not to judge anyone, but I know I do at times.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
18 Jul 19
Oh yes most people are like that in my country
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
17 Aug 19
Hahaha I never knew Sri Lanka is same as India
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
20 Aug 19
oh yes... they all are same.. horrible
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
26 Aug 19
@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
15 Jul 19
That is a sad reality that to this day that is badly being practiced in many cultures were women are discriminated and men are not.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
18 Jul 19
Yes true, I never liked that. The way they treat women is not really good
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@psanasangma (5884)
• India
16 Jul 19
Judgmental are actually because of stereotyping other people without crosschecking the reason behind. Even in India do so. It is better to get away and move on
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
18 Jul 19
Oh yes we can’t judge anyone until we walk on their shoes
• Philippines
16 Jul 19
There's no permanent happiness with men who handles a lot of women, they get left out in the end too.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
18 Jul 19
Yes and people treat them as heroes
@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
15 Jul 19
I'm a woman and must say that I'm glad I don't live in Sri Lanka or other countries with the same mentality. Is this mentality a reason why you emigrated?
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
18 Jul 19
Yes you are lucky that you are not in those countries and yes I never liked my country specially because of these kinds things. I always wanted to migrate and finally got the chance