Rude much!

By C
@ShyBear88 (59342)
Sterling, Virginia
July 16, 2019 7:24am CST
I got a text this morning from my sister-in-law my brothers wife. Asking if we are still going to the family reunion because they took time off to watch there son for me while I was going to be gone for 4 days? Well know duh! At the same I’m like are you rude much! I even told her we would going to decide on Wednesday if we where or where not and it depending on our refund which I didn’t get the second part till last night. I also know why she is asking because she doesn’t want to take care of her own son. It’s just half days on Thursday and Friday he has summer school for 3 hours. After that it isn’t much left of the day and she should spend time with him as well as my brother. She only takes off 2 says a week and he is in school those days during the school year. She acts like it’s such a hard thing. I know he is autistic but at the same time if you keep a routine he does just fine and a lot of time he just wants his wrestlers. I told my husband I deserve a break I don’t ask for time off from babysitting him even when I’m sick or our kids sick. We have spent a week under stress and I’ve promised these kids a vacation we suppose to go in and by god I’m giving them one. Also my husband does really ask off much during the year unless he or I own if of the kids is extremely sick. He works those nigh shifts and his bosses all love him and don’t mind giving him time off when he asks but he works a lot so we can take a time like this off and him not lose work pay. After this week he goes back to working 12 hour shifts this is only week off before training for 6 weeks.
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• United States
16 Jul 19
I'm sorry your sister in law is being a pain in the butt. It's awful that she is being that way, especially that she doesnt' want to spend time with her own son.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
16 Jul 19
She says she wants to but then really she doesn’t. If someone pays for her to do something she will or if I offer them come come with. She tried to invite herself down to the beach with us because I said we would hit the amusement park. Then she tries to play if off that she wasn’t trying to.
• United States
17 Jul 19
@ShyBear88 Oh so she doesn't pay her own way when you are out with her? That's awful.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
17 Jul 19
@ScribbledAdNauseum some times she’ll pay only because she knows that I can’t. A lot of things I’ll do is free things because it’s easy and it saves money. She likes to wast money and a lot of it
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• Sonora, California
16 Jul 19
Have a good time, sorry your sister is being a pain!
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
16 Jul 19
She is a constant pain
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• Sonora, California
16 Jul 19
@ShyBear88 Ugh I’m sorry to hear that!
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
17 Jul 19
@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
16 Jul 19
Let her take her kid for a few days, you all go have fun. I used to have a sister in law just like this one except her child was an invalent, she never wanted to stay home and she sure wouldnt take her child with her.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
16 Jul 19
Yeah she has always been that way when he was even little. When she came to drop him back off she even asked when I’m leaving because we are going to the beach. I told her Thursday after summer school which is a lie because her and my brother are suppose to have him not me and I don’t plan on it.