Interaction here has drawbacks

@dya80dya (33510)
July 20, 2019 2:23pm CST
I want to mention some of the disadvantages of writing here. When we post something here we can be judged and criticized. Some people don't believe that what we write here is real. I noticed many discussions that badmouth other members. I am not sure why such discussions are allowed here. And I was blocked by people who offended me. I think these are the drawbacks of interaction. I have to decide if I will let these disadvantages stop me posting here. I am using many sites when I work online and mylot helps me in some ways. I am not used to mylot yet because I am not an old member. I started to use mylot since last year. I shouldn't care about judgemental people, but unfortunately I do. Did you have negative experiences here?
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@Tampa_girl7 (48927)
• United States
20 Jul 19
Just block and stay away from the negative folks. I find that most of my fellow Mylotters are lovely.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
20 Jul 19
you know who they are.Block em.
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
21 Jul 19
You know you can block those you do not like. Block them and move on. Yes, I had to block a couple of people who were harassing me.
@NJChicaa (115986)
• United States
20 Jul 19
People block me all the time. I don't care.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
21 Jul 19
I just don't respond to negativity.I ignore them mostly.
@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
21 Jul 19
You have everywhere negative people. Just try to be positive.
@snowy22315 (169929)
• United States
20 Jul 19
Yes, sometimes...Some people too are very irritating without necessarily meaning to be.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
20 Jul 19
I haven't had many negative experiences here. There are a few people that I don't enjoying talking to, but I just stay away from their discussions.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
20 Jul 19
I have had a number of encounters with bullies, racists, misogynists, and opinionated bulls of a head who would gang up on anyone to put down. They enjoy picking on the innocent and the naive. Ignore and block, these kind of creatures, bullies do not deserve your time and effort. Speak your truth clearly in your discussions.
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Jul 19
I am free from me now, so I am free from others offending me or stealing my joy. You can decide who you want to interact with here for the most part, and most here are very loving, good people. =) Try your best everywhere you go to not let people bring you down or steal your joy. You were created with a purpose, and you are loved!
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 Jul 19
Pick who you interact with. I have a few that I chat with on here and that is it. I have been blocked by a few and that is okay because we do not live in a perfect world were everyone will like everyone. If someone offends you block them and go on making mylot money while chatting with people you do like.
@Hannihar (129430)
• Israel
21 Jul 19
@dya80dya I want to go a different way. Here you can find people that do believe what you write and care about you and will stick by you. Yes, there are nasty here too but there are also very nice people too. Why don't you give it another try and then if cannot find the good people then leave if you want.
@raveeen (3457)
21 Jul 19
Ya! There's one person that I really don't like but I get used to her, she's always responding to my posts sarcastically, arrogant. Instead of blocking her, I also answered her in more sarcastic way, I answered her like she can't mess with me LOL. Instead of blocking those kind of pathetic people we should be MORE pathetic when they respond to us in that way. But! remember that we should be nice to mylotters who are nice to us. Not just those myLotters who are responding.. Recently I saw a post judging other's body, like she mentioned having a "cellulite and an ugly tattoo" she judged those person and I told her that she don't have to judge those person just to COMPLIMENT HERSELF because cellulite and tattoos are good. Well maybe you are thinking that I have cellulite or tattoos haha NO, I DON'T HAVE. I just don't like judging other's imperfection in body because all of us has our own beauty and insecurities. Gosh those kind of people.
@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
21 Jul 19
because i can be consider as a new member, i havent had any negative experiences here, hopefully wont have
@db20747 (43426)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
20 Jul 19
Yes, negativity can creep up on you!! But that's the internet!! We have to stay away from negativity!!
@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
20 Jul 19
I didn't have such experience yet.
@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Jul 19
I pick and choose who I read and converse with. I have had negative experiences.