Oh people please understand.....

@Aansh13 (11433)
New Delhi, India
July 25, 2019 11:11pm CST
I was having some official communication with one of my seniors, he has a habit of speaking in between, he doesn't even listen to the entire plot and jumps to the conclusion. I was trying to make him understand the scenario that our client is facing, instead of understanding he is more interested in replying. I mean first listen, then understand, then if required reply..... Lately I have seen many people doing that. Their only agenda in the conversations are to reply, they listen to reply instead to understand. Sometimes I really feel sad, why are people in so rush.... Why can't they lend an ear to understand
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@evans777 (1540)
26 Jul 19
That's how most people are
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
27 Jul 19
Yeah! But kind of sad
@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
27 Jul 19
@evans777 Well! Agreed
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@evans777 (1540)
27 Jul 19
@Aansh13 quiet people like me are the best when it comes to understanding people
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@Kuttu_007 (1939)
• India
26 Jul 19
Its mostly because they would have already taken a decision on the matter so they wont listen to the words... instead they just come to the conclusion to support that their decision or perspective is right..I too have come across many people like this..
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
26 Jul 19
Yes.. people are already having opinion and they are not interested in listening and understanding
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
26 Jul 19
It is worst this thing happen at home in between husband and wife.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
27 Jul 19
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
27 Jul 19
Oh yes! You are so true ..
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• Pamplona, Spain
27 Jul 19
Its a very human habit and when we realize it what we are doing then we do our best to listen instead of jumping in everywhere in conversations.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
27 Jul 19
Exactly... This is what I was trying to put up
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• Pamplona, Spain
28 Jul 19
@Aansh13 Seeing as we learned it from others and since we learned it when we were very small its a hard habit to kick.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
28 Jul 19
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
26 Jul 19
Listening requires a lot of maturity. And it doesn't give you to show up your presence or your importance. So people tend to not take it as an important skill. Most of people in this fast paced world are self centered and they want the limelight by making their points or being heard. Listening is just dying out
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
26 Jul 19
@Aansh13 Many relationships are going for a disaster due to this.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
27 Jul 19
@arunima25 Indeed true
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
26 Jul 19
Very rightly said.... This is actually the fact... People have no time to listen and understand
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@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 19
that quote matches people these days
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
26 Jul 19
Yes...I does
@debjani1 (7202)
26 Jul 19
Very true. The main thing is to first listen, then understand and at last if required, give your opinion.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
26 Jul 19
Yeah! True...
@Starkinds (32737)
• India
26 Jul 19
Ohh yes it's common problem which I have to faced many times.
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@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
26 Jul 19
I am sure we all have faced this...
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
26 Jul 19
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