~Betrayal~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
Valdosta, Georgia
August 2, 2019 10:15pm CST
Hey everyone I hope you're doing well today. Things are good here. =) God is so good-no matter what happens around us...
Today I faced betrayal from someone I never expected it from...my sister.
Let's just say I don't take things well when you talk badly about me or my husband to my children! I know Jesus was betrayed and He understands this feeling...I'm praying for her & that my heart forgives soon.
Anyway, in the morning I have the flea market event for my photography and I'm excited to be a blessing and to show God's love to others!!
Then after the flea market I have an engagement session in the evening!
Do you need prayers? Do you have any plans this weekend?
Getting up early so goodnight!
Photo is from For God's Glory Photography
Let's just say I don't take things well when you talk badly about me or my husband to my children! I know Jesus was betrayed and He understands this feeling...I'm praying for her & that my heart forgives soon.
Anyway, in the morning I have the flea market event for my photography and I'm excited to be a blessing and to show God's love to others!!
Do you need prayers? Do you have any plans this weekend?
Getting up early so goodnight!
Photo is from For God's Glory Photography33 people like this
37 responses
@Tampa_girl7 (54714)
• United States
3 Aug 19
I hope that things will be okay with you and your sister.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@Tampa_girl7 I have forgiven her, however we weren't ever close to begin with so not a whole lot will change. =)
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@Tampa_girl7 (54714)
• United States
3 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies I'm glad that you forgave her.
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@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Aug 19
Life unfortunately is full of disappointments.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 19
@tech40 Thank you. She thinks she did nothing wrong by saying the "truth" in her eyes.
I have forgiven her even though she has not apologized.
I thank God that I'm what He says I am not what anyone else says I am.
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
4 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies What you did is right especially in the eyes of God.
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
3 Aug 19
That was bad on her part. I hope she realizes her mistake
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@amitkokiladitya Thank you. I have forgiven her even though she hasn't apologized.
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
4 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies I know you are a great person with a heart of gold.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@Janet357 It's true and so sad...=( I try so hard to uplift others-I don't understand anyone tearing others down...there's no reason for that!
Thank you!
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 19
@Janet357 Yes, they do. Jesus knows how that feels and that gives me comfort.
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@Janet357 (75638)
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4 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies and no matter how nice you are to everyone, they have something to say against you.
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
3 Aug 19
Sorry to hear that your sister hss betrayed you. You have the great spiritual tool in your life and that's prayer. Use it. Pray for her.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 19
@Nakitakona Thank you. Yes I have prayed and forgiven her. I thank God that I am what He says I am and not what anyone else says I am. =)
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
4 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies Only God knows and being forgiving the Lord is happy for you and the Lord hss blessed you in return.
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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
3 Aug 19
Sorry it happened but it does happen from time to time within a family, you have such lovely children
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 19
@louievill Yes it does happen and hurts when it does.
These kids aren't mine, I did a photo session of them but they are beautiful! =)
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@Juliaacv (56195)
• Canada
3 Aug 19
When mean things are said about us or to us by our family it cuts so much deeper.
I know that in time you will forgive her, hopefully she changes her ways and thinking.
Enjoy your Saturday, I know that you were looking forward to the flea market.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@Juliaacv It does, especially when done behind our backs-to our kids! =(
I have forgiven her and came to peace with it after I told her I was very hurt and why I was hurt.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 19
@LadyDuck I don't know, I think she thinks my kids need rescuing from their non rich life with us.
Thank you very much for caring.
Thank you very much for caring.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@Ladyduck They did and my parents called to tell me she said things to them about us too! =(
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Aug 19
I am so sorry, I know it really hurts, did you discuss this problem with her?
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@andriaperry Thank you. I haven't yet. I wanted the hurt to pass a bit before saying anything, this way it's coming from love and not anger. I have prayed about it and for the Lord to give me the right words.
@AliCanary (4387)
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3 Aug 19
Oh no! I hope it was a misunderstanding, or at least that you can work it out.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 19
@Alicanary Thank you. She says she did nothing wrong except say the "truth". I have forgiven her and that's all I can do.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@Sojourn It absolutely does.
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@Michellekidwell (29953)
• Sonora, California
3 Aug 19
I am so sorry you were betrayed, sadly I think many of us have been!
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@Michellekidwell Thanks, yes we all have been. =(
@Starkinds (32737)
• India
3 Aug 19
I know it's tough when someone very near to our heart couldn't understand your feelings it's feel so bad about
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@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
3 Aug 19
Aww, that is too bad about your sister. My sister doesn't always treat me that well either..so I know the feeling. She does do nice things for me, but other than an issue with my cat, I haven't specifically asked her to, so I don't know why she feels the need to feel superior.

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@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
3 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies A loving thing to do would have been to offer to help..but she may be frustrated. We all are human. She should have NEVER dragged the kids into it though.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@snowy22315 I'm sorry. =(
My sister spread lies about my family to other family members. Saying we don't provide well enough for our kids... And said other things TO my kids.
I can absolutely relate to your relationship with your sister. I just did not know she felt that way about us...
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@snowy22315 Here's the thing, when we NEEDED help living in a motel room no one offered to help us.
Now that we're doing well-now people think we need help and don't provide enough?! It just doesn't make sense EXCEPT to start drama
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
3 Aug 19
Sorry to hear that. Hopefully, you will have it resolved soon.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 19
@cherriefic I have forgiven her. =) We don't have a relationship anymore but it's okay.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 19
@cherriefic I have been praying for her. =)
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
4 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies
Everything will be fine. Just pray for her.
Everything will be fine. Just pray for her.1 person likes this

@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@jstory07 To be honest, so did I which is why I was so shocked and hurt-as was my husband also. =(
If it was someone else it wouldn't have hurt this bad.
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@jstory07 (148701)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies So sorry you and your husband are good people raising your kids to be good people. And doing a good job.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@jstory07 Thank you so much! We are doing our very best. =) We might not be rich but our family has what we need.
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@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
3 Aug 19
Jennifer, I'm sorry to hear that this came from your sister of all people. I hope she realizes the harm she caused and seeks forgiveness. I also hope that God heals your heart and allows you to forgive her and get past this.
On a positive note, I hope everything goes well at the flea market and your engagement session!
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 19
@moffittjc Thank you. It was very unexpected and I have always said nice things to and about her-this was all very shocking to me and my family.
I have forgiven her. =) I know I am imperfect as well, so I must forgive others.
Thanks, everything went great!!
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@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
5 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies You've got a truly wonderful heart Jennifer! I admire that!
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Aug 19
@Hazysue Thank you.
She told my kids and my parents the same things that my husband doesn't provide well enough in her opinion. She also said we make everything we eat out of a box?! My husband loves to cook and he doesn't do so out of a box.
Just random hurtful things like that.
Just random hurtful things like that.1 person likes this
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 19
@HazySue It is none of her business, and not sure why it matters so much to her. I think she was trying to be "super aunt" and thought she had to rescue my kids from something?
They are healthy, happy and their needs are met.
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
4 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies Silly of her to say these things. First of all it is none of her business even if she is your sister. I wonder why they matter so much to her?
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@YuleimaVzla (1857)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
4 Aug 19
There is a letter from a Panamanian musician Ruben Blades, and he sings genre social salsa and has a song called "Love and Control" was about families and there is a stanza that I would like to share with you that says:
-for more problems that exist
inside your house
-By more than
you think your love is a lost cause
- Be assured that your family loves you
... And that love lasts a lifetime
-How much control and how much love
there has to be a house?
a lot of control and a lot of love
To face the misfortune.
So I hope you love even those who do not love you, one never divorces the family and I hope you find in you enough maturity to sit down one day to talk with your sister about why he did that and forgive, forgive is good for You because it releases a lot of grief from your soul.
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@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 19
@YuleimaVzla I have forgiven her and I love others with God's love-even when that's hard to do.
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@YuleimaVzla (1857)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
5 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies I know perfectly well, I never get along well with my mother, she has hurt me immensely for her whole life, I am certainly an adopted daughter, but despite everything, if I see her suffering or in any serious problem, I always look for way to help her because it is the family that I have.























