What kind of a person are you?

@JustBhem (59874)
Davao, Philippines
August 13, 2019 9:25pm CST
The one that let go of the fight and forget about it or the one who stands coz you are right? I always have this habit of standing for the fact that I’m right. Yes. Most of the time when I and the boyfriend fight over something that has been going on for year and still don’t get it. Sometimes the boyfriend will be the one to cut the fight, it’s either he will be the one to make sorry or accept that he is wrong. And also if I know I’m being exaggerated, I’m the one who say I’m sorry. It just a give and take.
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@cperry2 (2064)
• United States
14 Aug
I learned long ago, that I do not need to be right, even when I am. Meaning, I will walk away from a situation where someone feels the need to prove they are right. I broke up a fight between two kids once. One was saying that his dog was better or some such crap and the other disagreed. I asked a simple question. "If I tell you the sky is green then beat you until you cannot walk, will that make the sky green?" Who cares who's right or wrong. Fighting about it makes no sense. Even if you walk away when you know for fact you are correct, it is a better path than someone getting physically or mentally hurt over it.
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
Nice thought. And you are right. It is better to just walk away and move on. And in my case I have this kind of irritation and somehow manage to stop and then let go.
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@cperry2 (2064)
• United States
14 Aug
@JustBhem Can lose good friends that way, I know, it used to happen to me.
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
@cperry2 And then?
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@infatuatedbby (103022)
• United States
14 Aug
I am the *right* one
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
I think we have that kind of thing when it comes to argument.
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• United States
14 Aug
@JustBhem My fiance usually just lets me win and we continue on.
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
@infatuatedbby You fiance is more understanding.
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@yanzalong (15131)
• Indonesia
14 Aug
Perseverance is my characteristic. I never give up no matter what happens.
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
Really? How does it work?
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@yanzalong (15131)
• Indonesia
14 Aug
@JustBhem Beside perseverance, patience and positive thinking are the key.
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
@yanzalong That’s cool that you can manage.
@Mavic123456 (19464)
• Thailand
14 Aug
that's tiring. i don't do that anymore. it came to a point when I don't like arguments anymore and just wait and see to what will happen. ask me why I think this way. LOL.
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
Why??
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@Mavic123456 (19464)
• Thailand
14 Aug
@JustBhem haha... i almost forgot why. Anyway, I am tired of arguments... for me, if a person likes it that then be it.. and see what result will be. If the result turned out to be what I expect... and said so, then, i said "see..." if not, i just apologize. I always respect a person's opinion.
@kobesbuddy (79179)
• East Tawas, Michigan
14 Aug
Even if I figure that I'm right, my personality will back down. I won't fight, it's too upsetting. I apologize for wrongdoings, it's considered the right thing to do.
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
And it’s okay? Right?
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@kobesbuddy (79179)
• East Tawas, Michigan
14 Aug
@JustBhem Whenever I back down, there's always a cooling off time. I find other things to occupy my mind, instead.
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@renicemae (3921)
• Philippines
14 Aug
I'm both. When I'm right, I'll stand for it but if the person I'm arguing with is not an open minded person, then I'll just let go of the fight and let him/her say whatever he/she wants. I mean, it's useless arguing to close minded people .
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
I always stand if I’m right. But sometimes I give in and says sorry.
@Janet357 (22554)
14 Aug
your bf seems.very nice and kind. because he always takes care of your needs.
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
Yes, he is. And I could not ask for more.
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@sol_cee (20107)
• Japan
14 Aug
I don’t like explaining myself. It’s too tiring.
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
So you just walk away?
@Ladanger (8997)
• United States
14 Aug
If i am right then i will stick to it. I do apologize when i am wrong.
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@JustBhem (59874)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Aug
It should be like that.
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