You think I’m a bad mom
By C
@ShyBear88 (59342)
Sterling, Virginia
August 14, 2019 8:24pm CST
First off I’m if you think I’m a bad mom for getting mad at my husband for call the ortho before waiting the full 5 days. Let me tell me tell you, maybe you didn’t read back on all of my discussions but my 4 year old has a possible fractured to his growth plate to two of his fingers. As his mom I know if he is truly hurt or not. He has also been in a splint since Sunday night. 5 days isn’t till Thursday. I have every right as my child’s mother to be upset with his father without consulting me.
If you want to be upset with me for being upset with him and having him canceled and appointment. This of this, how would you like me to pay a doctor? I have to pay at time of visit, I can’t just ask the doctor to bill me later. I know the the location our son goes to them for his stomach which is the GI. They also have other practices within the practice. I have to pay $30 I don’t have $30 till Friday. My husband wasn’t thinking. He knows he gets paid Friday he could have easily said at call is there a time on Friday or Monday or some time next week. Where I can put the $30 a side. Weather our son’s finger is broken or not when a finger is broken there isn’t anything they can really do about it. They splint you or cast you.
At time of x-rays they couldn’t see anything the doctor left it up to me and my husband to choice we picked a splint. He will stay in the splint till he goes in. When we have the money after Friday. Got a problem with that my mylot friends? Then this is what I say it’s not your child, not your money. If you can mangical make any one of my 3 accounts get $30 before tomorrow morning we would have kept the appointments. My husbands agrees after hearing what I had to say that he was in the wrong. I do all the kids doctors appointment for that reason so we can pay at first since certain doctors offices will not see you unless you pay the co-pay.
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2 responses
@YuleimaVzla (1857)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
28 Aug 19
Hello, I notice you a little defensively with the situation, or maybe a little stressed, first of all breathe, organize your ideas, you are not a bad mother, take those ideas from your mind, as parents we are not perfect and we have our way of thinking What is right about acting in an emergency with our children, and in this being parents, nothing is written as perfect or imperfect, your priorities are that your little child is well, take things slowly and take a deep breath. I wish you and your little son good luck
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
28 Aug 19
It want an emergency as you can see front the post this was many days ago. A few people on here were upset with me but know the situation we are in. I can’t take a child to a doctor when I have no money. Also my husband is a dummy some day and doesn’t think. I found out why he was being a dummy ans I got very mad at him.
My son is fine you will find another post where he went a few days later after waiting the litter time and good thing because I was correct like normal. His fingers were not broken.
@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Aug 19
Not a good thing but since there is nothing else you can do take it easy. In the meantime, it is more important to make sure your son is careful with that hand and make sure he does not hurt himself anymore. Then I am sure the doctors will take care of everything else. No judgments mothers always do the very best they can.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
15 Aug 19
Thank you! Others where judging me for being upset with my husband. I think I have every right. It’s nto that I don’t want to take him. Because I do if he needs it but to wait the time the doctor said and the make the appointment when I know we will have the money. There isn’t anything I can do about money and make it pop out of no where. If I could I would be rich. My husband said sorry and changed the appointment day to another day next week. I’ll take the $30 out for him on Friday so we have it for the appointment.
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