Oh dear fiancee is mad
By SyedWasiq
@Loverabbit (3401)
Karachi, Pakistan
August 22, 2019 6:56am CST
As the title can tell, lets say me and my fiancee got into an argument and as none was willing to agree to other's
statement so that led to us to silence and now what we are left is 1 word replies to each other....
I thought it was a night thing and she would be normal by day time but oh dear the heat is high....I asked her how she was and she said "fine" I said good she said "ty"....
Any tips on how to get back to her?
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6 responses
@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
22 Aug 19
@Loverabbit
Maybe you go to counseling or give her space till she cools down. Have you had fights like that before? if so, how did you resolve them?
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
22 Aug 19
@Loverabbit
No, I am saying if you go to counseling you can work out your problems there and hopefully see what you both have to do and get past what is going on and work on your relationship.
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@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
23 Aug 19
@Hannihar you mean I seek arbitrary advice 
it's not sth that big just an argument
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
22 Aug 19
@Loverabbit I guess asking to sit with her to once again discuss whatever it is you two were discussing. And hopefully come to some sort of agreement. Life is way too damn short. Make it known to her that if the silent treatment is what she prefers rather than trying to work it out, then so be it but it's wasting valuable time!
Maybe give her space for now but I think a civil conversation is in need right now to sort things out! Wishing you all the best and hope this situation gets better!
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@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
22 Aug 19
Asking her to sitting is a tricky thing....I haven't yet gone with her on her birthday-date.... lol you might call me a troublemaker but I asked her many times and whenever she was free I was working and that way it never happened...so ig asking for a sitting with her might burn her more....
I am trying to tell her that her silence isn't preferred but I won't accept the wrongs if she believes even if that would hurt me.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Aug 19
@Loverabbit Is that what this is all about? You not being able to take her out for her birthday because you are working? You can't really help that though.
I really hope things work out dude!
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@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
23 Aug 19
@VivaLaDani13 it did and more like the way I didn't expect but it's funny....I said to her hi and again she was 1 word then I said babe seems to be hot lol that got her talking
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@db20747 (43419)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
22 Aug 19
@Loverabbit buy her a box of candy maybe?!
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@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
22 Aug 19
I tried this too by wishing a morning but these 1 word replies shut me away....I don't know how to talk more
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
7 Sep 19
One of you have to break this and come to regular conversation. You can initiate it. I am a bit late to reply. Hope things have straighten out by now.
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@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
7 Sep 19
Thanks Arunima, I tried and she was one word replies but later I managed to get her talking with some help by Deborah specially....you're most welcome and appreciated for still replying...it is resolved and we had a quality date
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@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
9 Sep 19
@arunima25 lol yes special and essential
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@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
22 Aug 19
That's ok....it's good to be bachelor 
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
22 Aug 19
@Loverabbit ok it's may good for you then all then best
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@Writingghost (5196)
• United States
13 Sep 19
Negotiate. Talk it out. Ignoring it and the issue will come back.
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