Yesterday Was a BAD Day

@kareng (80243)
United States
September 2, 2019 9:52am CST
I wasn't online much at all yesterday. The morning started out fine. It was promising to be a hot day, but still a fairly nice day. The day went haywire when I heard my husband on his cell phone back in the bedroom. His voice was raised and I heard him from the den saying, "Calm down, I can't understand you." I knew that it was one of our three daughters on the phone. I ran to the back of the house to see what was going on. It was Ashley, one of the twins. She manages a cafe that is in a truck stop. She was in tears and hysterical. She had received a phone call from EMS regarding one of their very good customers. They were currently working on him and they asked her to come down since she was a good friend. She ended up having to drive herself there. Her father in law refused to babysit so her significant other could drive her so he stayed home with the two kids. This wasn't a situation for small kids to be around. I stayed on the phone with her until she got there. Our friend died. They worked on him for 20 minutes but were not successful. He had a heart attack while getting into his 18 wheeler. They also thought someone hit him on the back of his head. He was single, divorced and left behind a daughter in her 20's. Before the police, EMS, and the cororner left a lady ran inside saying her husband was not breathing. His truck was parked on the opposite end of the truck stop. This man also had a heart attack and passed away in his sleep. Now the police are wondering if there is a connection between the two. Are drugs involved? The asked what these two men ate at the cafe the previous night. And then a third call comes in about another death reported at a hotel not even a mile away. This mad was discovered by housekeeping and appeared to also be a heart attack. My daughter spent the afternoon there assisting with the investigation. After getting home I called to check on her. I told her that I think Wayne's object is butterflies. I told her about going outside after talking to her earlier and there was an unusual amount of butterflies. I relayed this to her so she could tell Payton that Wayne was watching over her and thinking of her. Her daughter who is 7 was very upset over this. Wayne always played with her and paid attention to her. He was a great friend and always willing to help out. Ashley took her daughter outside to spend some time with her and they too were greeted with a swarm of butterflies that fluttered around her. This seemed to help Payton feel better and deal with this unexpected death of her "buddy." She will always associate butterflies with Wayne now. Rest in peace, Wayne. We will all miss you dearly. Photo: Pixabay, public domain
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@LindaOHio (222285)
• United States
2 Sep 19
I'm so sorry to hear about all of this. Sending prayers and thoughts to you and your daughter and her daughter.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
2 Sep 19
Thank you, @LindaOH It was just too much for one day. I think they finally ruled they were all separate incidences but at one point they thought they were all connected.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
3 Sep 19
@LindaOHio Yes, very odd and upsetting to say the least.
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@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
2 Sep 19
OMG! So sorry to hear about all of these things.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
2 Sep 19
It was very odd and a very sad day.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
4 Sep 19
Omg! I’m terribly sorry to hear this. I hope none of these were connected. How sad and awful. My condolences.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
4 Sep 19
Thank you for your support, Dianne.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Sep 19
That seems too coincidental for three people to die in such a short time and in the same location. I'm glad you could calm her down.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
2 Sep 19
Very. The police were even looking into what they ate the night before. I'm not sure what the final results of the investigation are or were. I'll have to tune in to the news tonight and see if anything is mentioned.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
4 Sep 19
@just4him Last I heard they had them all figured separate cases, just a weird coincidence.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Sep 19
@kareng I hope they find what connects them all.
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@JudyEv (381837)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Sep 19
What an awful day for you all and especially your daughter. I've heard this about butterflies too. I'm glad it comforted the little girl a bit.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
3 Sep 19
Yes, I hope she gets through the week okay. We have another problem now that will also affect her concerning her little brother.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
3 Sep 19
@JudyEv I hope not. I've got too much on my plate with my mother. I don't need other things going on too.
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@JudyEv (381837)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Sep 19
@kareng Oh no, not again. However I guess it will be ongoing for the near future.
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
3 Sep 19
I'm sorry you had a bad day. Keep smile and be happy
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
3 Sep 19
It's hard with all the turmoil right now.
@snowy22315 (208770)
• United States
2 Sep 19
So sorry about your friend Wayne.. It does sound like a very bad day indeed.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
2 Sep 19
Thank you @snowy225. My granddaughter woke up this morning and asked if it was true and started crying all over again. I'm hoping this will get better for her as the week goes on.
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@wolfgirl569 (135601)
• Marion, Ohio
2 Sep 19
So sorry. Thinking of all those that passed. It is strange that it was that many in a small ara.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
3 Sep 19
And within a matter of just a few hours.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
2 Sep 19
That's sad. I'm sorry to hear that.
@kareng (80243)
• United States
3 Sep 19
It is very sad indeed.
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