What gift is this?

@TheHorse (238268)
Walnut Creek, California
September 29, 2019 7:15pm CST
I don't think I wrote about yesterday's birthday party. The Birthday Boy turned five but was tiring by the time he blew out the candles. He fell asleep on the way home, and I didn't think he'd make it that long. But most importantly, I scored some wonderful leftover Indian food. Horse Jr. and I helped the child's parents unload the car after the party, and they "rewarded" us with "all we could eat" of the leftover food. I brought home what is shown in the picture, and Birthday Boy's parents brought me some more food today. His dad and I had an interesting conversation on my balcony about Indian v. American values, and he admitted that he wants to return to India at some point. I'll provide more details another time, or maybe in comments. Most importantly, I have enough delicious food to last me a couple of days. I'll talk about the turtles and ducks we fed by hand in another post.
18 people like this
18 responses
• United States
30 Sep 19
Score, man that is a lot of good food , enjoy
3 people like this
• United States
30 Sep 19
@TheHorse President of India, this sounds rather interesting...Maybe @Vandana7 will appear .
3 people like this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
I LOVE Indian food. As President of India (ask @Vandana7 about that) I should demand (or should I say "request," to be politically correct and get re-elected) a delicious Indian meal be delivered to my house every evening.
3 people like this
@vandana7 (102698)
• India
30 Sep 19
@TheHorse President of India is diabetic and suffers with hypertension...all Indian Presidents are elderly and have such issues. So they get served bland food. So you are entitled to boiled hospital stuff...no spices...no frying...enjoy.
2 people like this
@vandana7 (102698)
• India
30 Sep 19
Pony ji... a) If you were invited to the party, then it is fine to be given left over foods. If not, DO NOT ACCEPT IT FROM ANY INDIAN. Is that clear? We usually give left overs to poor and house helps. It is not considered good thing to give to neighbors too. If you understand what I mean. It is kinda looking down...sigh. If, however, you were invited to the party, then it is an honor, a way to treat you as family member.
2 people like this
@vandana7 (102698)
• India
1 Oct 19
@TheHorse No. It would not. I am proud of Horse Jr. If you are invited and the food offered is remaining and hosts have not given it all to you two and the dish given is something that everybody has liked, usually sweets, then you have decent neighbors. Here is an example of when it would be an insult. My little friend's mom stopped celebrating his birthdays and started donating monies instead (something happened at the time of his 1st birthday party). His maternal grandma now prepares a cake and brings it down for essentially family celebration. His paternal grandma gave me two pieces of that cake two days after the kiddos birthday. Even my house help felt hurt that they looked down upon me. I am accustomed to being looked down as I am unmarried and childless. And that when I am educationally and financially at least three times better off than her. I tend to keep low profile lest such people start asking monies and then ridicule me more. Latest on list is my milkman. He openly asks what will you do with monies you have no kids no husband. When I said I want to enjoy, he laughed what enjoy, at this age. He is pestering from last month and a half. Before that it was washerwoman, but I was able to snub her. This guy is really behaving obnoxiously. There are no laws against such harassment out here. I can only fight verbally, and yet have to control my tongue lest these people feel so hurt that they gang up and harm me and my father.
2 people like this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Oct 19
@vandana7 Do you want to hire me as a "heavy"? I will stand around and look tough and stare intimidatingly at those who harass.
2 people like this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
Oh, I was invited to the party. And it felt like an honor to receive the food. Here's a nuance: Horse Jr's mom, who is from Croatia, was also inivted to the party. But she was tired from work and let me take Horse Jr. to the party. When they offered her food, she (well, Martin on her behalf) refused it. I told Martin accept a "sweet" or two, even if he decided later not to eat it. Would refusing offered food be seen as an insult?
2 people like this
@LadyDuck (502190)
• Italy
30 Sep 19
Everything looks delicious, I love Indian food.
2 people like this
@LadyDuck (502190)
• Italy
1 Oct 19
@TheHorse I had to see my eye doctor today, we had lunch in Lugano, I think I am skipping dinner tonight.
2 people like this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Oct 19
I have one more meal left. (smiley face emoticon)
2 people like this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Oct 19
@LadyDuck I think I only grazed last night. I think I will have my sourdough toast with cream cheese and lox this morning.
2 people like this
@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
30 Sep 19
I love Indian food, and would have loved to have been in your shoes. Good job on getting all those leftovers!
2 people like this
@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
2 Oct 19
@TheHorse That's pretty impressive!
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
I think I set a record and had Indian food for five straight meals.
2 people like this
@noni1959 (13017)
• United States
30 Sep 19
That looks amazing. The food was a great gift to go home with.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
It was really good. I had it again tonight (I added a hard boiled egg to make it "different") and still have some left.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
@noni1959 Do you have other favorite foods? I'm glad this is in my fridge. When I go to the local Indian restaurant (excellent), I tend to overdo it. Tummy ache.
1 person likes this
@noni1959 (13017)
• United States
30 Sep 19
@TheHorse That's a lot of food. Nice. I like Indian food.
1 person likes this
@JudyEv (381815)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Sep 19
We had a great conversation with an Indian taxi driver one evening and he can't wait to return to India where they'll live near to his parents who are dying to share lots of stories and traditions with their grand-children. The kids are anxious to return to India too where they will live in the country and have much more freedom in terms of being able to run around safely outside. It was a bit of a bitter pill for me to swallow to have someone say they can't wait to leave Australia but it was still very interesting.
2 people like this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Oct 19
@JudyEv What happened?
2 people like this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
My 5-year-old's dad said similar things. What made him most lonely here, he said, was how closed off Americans are toward each other. In his village, doors are always open, children play together in the streets (the Indian kids here do do that here with their parents watching) and the grownups hang out and tell stories when not working.
2 people like this
@JudyEv (381815)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Oct 19
@TheHorse Our society used to be more like that but families here are now much more 'insular' is the word I guess.
2 people like this
@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
30 Sep 19
You could ship me some food, Horse. I did not find much here when I came back. At least nothing prepared.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
On its way. I don't know what part of India they're from--actually I do, but I'll have to look at a map. Anyway, the food is yummy.
1 person likes this
@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
30 Sep 19
@TheHorse That´s what matters!
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Oct 19
@marguicha I still have one more snack left!
1 person likes this
@1creekgirl (44560)
• United States
5 Oct 19
That was a real treat for you.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Oct 19
It was fun. Horse Jr. here right now, teaching me about Minecraft.
1 person likes this
@Deepizzaguy (122070)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
30 Sep 19
A superb leftover meal.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
I will get two more days of pleasure from what they gave me.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
@Deepizzaguy I have and I will. Thanks.
1 person likes this
@Deepizzaguy (122070)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
30 Sep 19
@TheHorse That is nice to know. Enjoy the meals.
1 person likes this
@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
30 Sep 19
Huge Score!
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
I've had it for lunch (yesterday), dinner (yesterday), breakfast (today), and lunch (today). Maybe I'll have something different for dinner.
1 person likes this
@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
30 Sep 19
@TheHorse Oh why? Just when you are on a roll of eating just that food!
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
@andriaperry I'm turning Indian. I really think so. What should I have tonight? I think I'll have frozen macaroni and cheese. Nothing more American than that.
1 person likes this
@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
3 Oct 19
Naan bread, chicken biryani, curd (? or is it rice pudding?). I can't pinpoint the other ones.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Oct 19
It was a chutney that tasted like yogurt with a hint of dill and/or cucumber.
@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
3 Oct 19
@TheHorse Happy Belated birthday to the birthday boy. Enjoy the food.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Oct 19
Heh. I'll tell him he has a Birthday Wish from someone far away!
1 person likes this
@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
4 Oct 19
@TheHorse Thanks so much.
@Dyvette16 (4299)
• United States
1 Oct 19
Yumm I’m always up for all you can eat haha
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Oct 19
It can give me a tummy ache.
1 person likes this
@Dyvette16 (4299)
• United States
2 Oct 19
@TheHorse only the right times ha
@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Oct 19
Sounds like a wonderful birthday and good food.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Oct 19
It was a good time. I haven't even written yet about how we fed the red eared sliders (turtles) by hand. Now I have to take the food tray back to the child's parents.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Oct 19
@CarolDM The child was SOOOOO tired by the time he blew out the candles. He was cranky. I hope he remembers the event fondly.
1 person likes this
@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Oct 19
@TheHorse Such exciting times. Birthdays. Memories.
1 person likes this
@yanzalong (19091)
• Indonesia
30 Sep 19
Looking forward to that.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
I'll write about it as soon as my last few posts have at least 20 comments each. Heh.
@wolfgirl569 (135583)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Sep 19
Lots of food.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
Lots of INDIAN food--among my favorite cuisine.
1 person likes this
@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Sep 19
That is wonderful glad the family gave you all that food. I am sure the birthday boy relived it all in his dreams.
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Sep 19
He was full of vigor this morning (he helped his dad wash the car) but was getting cranky again this afternoon. I think he will sleep well again tonight. It was good to sit and chat with his dad.
1 person likes this
@Starkinds (32737)
• India
1 Oct 19
This is like Indian food
1 person likes this
@TheHorse (238268)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Oct 19
LIKE Indian food? It IS Indian food!
1 person likes this