Darned if You Do, Darned If You Don’t
@Michellekidwell (29953)
Sonora, California
November 3, 2019 5:13pm CST
The friend that I was helping decided to send my brother messages calling me lazy lol, never mind that I had helped her, I had done what I could to make her feel at home, I do kinda let things slide with her because I know she’s been through a lot but honestly I’m sick of the judgement as I try to keep a house in order through power outages, move furniture around to make sure I spaced the furniture for access. My vacuum broke but I replaced it just Friday, normally I vacuum everyday!
I helped her because I knew she needed the help, but being judged for things I don’t really have control over like broken vacuums and black outs is a bit old.
Honestly I’m afraid she’s cracking up and I’m just another one to lash out on!
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
3 Nov 19
The kind of person I hate most is the ingrate. In my past there were many of them and some were even my best friends.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
4 Nov 19
@Michellekidwell regardless of what pain she is undergoing. Smearing a friend is a mortal sin to me, unforgivable. Sorry for being harsh.
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@Michellekidwell (29953)
• Sonora, California
4 Nov 19
I take into consideration all that she has been through but that doesn’t give her a right to judge me!
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@Michellekidwell (29953)
• Sonora, California
4 Nov 19
Honestly I think something is going on with her so I’ve distanced myself
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Nov 19
That is not the way for a good friend to behave. Now I am glad I only have to answer to myself,
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@Michellekidwell (29953)
• Sonora, California
4 Nov 19
Makes me miss the best friend I ever had sadly she passed in 07!
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Nov 19
Toxic friend, walk away because you will never be able to satisfy her.
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@Michellekidwell (29953)
• Sonora, California
4 Nov 19
I pretty much have! She’s been through a lot but it certainly doesn’t give her the right to judge me!
@Michellekidwell (29953)
• Sonora, California
3 Nov 19
I’m not, I’ve kind of just washed my hands of it! I’m so done with that!
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@jstory07 (148701)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Nov 19
That is a lot of pressure on you. Can you have a talk with her. You help her out and she should be grateful but she is not.
@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
3 Nov 19
Yeah, something is wrong there and certainly not fair. We see this happen too much.
We all need to live in a 'no judgment' zone.
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