Remembering Dustin Today and Always

@CarolDM (203396)
Nashville, Tennessee
December 9, 2019 11:42am CST
Lost my son on this December day many years ago at the age of 16. He is forever in my heart. I look for signs to keep me going. Without signs, without hope, without believing I will see him again one day, I would give up. Would probably join him, wherever he is. Have considered it many times. Dustin wants me to be happy. So I will look for ways to be happy. Happy memories of Dustin fishing at his Grandmother's in this photo. Never take anyone in your life for granted.
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• United States
9 Dec 19
I am glad you are here Carol. Dustin is always near you, even I can feel him around you. Hello Dustin from me.
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• United States
10 Dec 19
@CarolDM Always welcome friend
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
Thank you for your kind words.
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• United States
9 Dec 19
We must move forward always, even as we look back in memory.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
Thank you.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
10 Dec 19
I remember this from days on Bubblews. Yes, we move on, but we never get over the loss. Big hugs.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 19
Yes Heather, every year is the same pain. Thank you.
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@wolfgirl569 (135583)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Dec 19
So sorry. We will see them again.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
Thanks Eva, and yes we will.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
9 Dec 19
My heart bleeds for you. What you suffered is more than any person can bear. Dustin will remain in your heart and soul forever. Today must be unbearable for you.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
9 Dec 19
@CarolDM You know I feel for you. Dustin would want you to carry on until you are reunited. Know that he’s watching over you in so many ways. The photo is a precious reminder of that. He was such an adorable little boy. I love seeing photos of him.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
@DianneN I just have to always thank you, it means a lot.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
Thank you my friend. It is not a favorite day at all. I remember every moment of that day. But I am here now, surviving.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Dec 19
That's a nice photo of him. I'm glad you didn't join him and look for signs to keep you going.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Dec 19
@CarolDM And I just asked on another comment. I'm glad you got it.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
@just4him Yes I did!!
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
Thank you my friend. Got a surprise in the mail today. I will write about it tomorrow. Perfect timing.
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@ptrikha_2 (49753)
• India
10 Dec 19
Very very sorry to hear that. One of my cousins expired at the age of 19, many years back. It was so tragic! I have no words to express what one goes through in such moments.
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@ptrikha_2 (49753)
• India
11 Dec 19
@CarolDM It must have been very tough all these years. Memories do come back from time to time?
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@ptrikha_2 (49753)
• India
12 Dec 19
@CarolDM Yes I can understand.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 19
Thank you, it is devastating to say the least. Sorry about your cousin.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Dec 19
Life is so short, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. =(
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
Thank you, it is short.
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@Juliaacv (56195)
• Canada
10 Dec 19
That is great advice, we should never every take anyone for granted in our lives. He was such an adorably cute little boy. I am glad that you are making a conscious decision to be happy, for Dustin, today. My daughter's anniversary will be on March 2nd, and its awfully hard to be happy on those days. But I'll try, and hopefully I'll make it just like you are.
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@Juliaacv (56195)
• Canada
10 Dec 19
@CarolDM I know that you do, its like all of his goodness did not die with him, it lives and it gives from you. He has a very loving and considerate spirit.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 19
@Juliaacv You are so kind, and those words mean so much and bring comfort. Thank you my friend.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 19
Thank you. I thought so too. I try every day to be happy and help others along the way. Thoughts are with you as well.
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@LadyDuck (502187)
• Italy
10 Dec 19
I am so sorry, your pain must be so terrible. Of course you will see him again one day.
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@LadyDuck (502187)
• Italy
11 Dec 19
@CarolDM I can imagine, even if I am not a mother I can feel the pain of the parents who lost a son or a daughter.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 19
A parent's worst nightmare Anna. I hope I will see him again. Thank you.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Dec 19
@LadyDuck It is the worst, it really is Anna. We are not suppose to outlive our children.
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• United States
11 Dec 19
aw, such a cutie 'n great memories. my heart goes out to ya, hon. i know that pain ne'er leaves. 'tis been o'er 40yrs now since my brother left this earth'n my sweet momma still struggles.
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• United States
12 Dec 19
@CarolDM yer welcome, hon. my heart sure goes out to ya.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Dec 19
Thanks, you never ever get over losing a child.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Dec 19
@crazyhorseladycx Thank for your support. Means a lot my friend.
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@xFiacre (14782)
• Ireland
9 Dec 19
@caroldm A dreadful day to have to remember. At the same time you don’t want to forget.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
Indeed. Dreadful explains it well. I will never forget.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
10 Dec 19
I have told you many times that I cannot imagine how great your pain is, but I have told you that I admire your courage and strength. You are a wonderful mother and I know he is always with you.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Dec 19
@Nevena83 What good would that do? I have anger that he is gone but not at him. Just life.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 19
You are so very kind to say again. Thank you!
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
12 Dec 19
@CarolDM I honestly think so. It fascinates me that there is no hatred, anger in your soul ...
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
9 Dec 19
Sorry to know that. How old is your son Dustin left you?
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
He was 16.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 19
@Nakitakona Tell me about it, and thank you!
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
14 Dec 19
@CarolDM Sorry to hear that. I am very sorry.
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
9 Dec 19
Sorry for you right loss I also loss a child he was 17 days old there is not a day that goes by that I don’t think of him.
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
9 Dec 19
@CarolDM Your welcome and thank you it was hard and even harder finding out I was pregnant a year to the date of losing my son
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
Thank you. And so sorry for your loss. I feel your pain.
@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
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@suni51 (3431)
• India
10 Dec 19
I know it's not easy to say something in situations like these but I feel you're never away from your loved ones wherever they are. By the way what happened to your son?
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@suni51 (3431)
• India
10 Dec 19
@CarolDM Really, but why?
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 19
@suni51 No idea, I would love to know my friend.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Dec 19
Carol you WILL be with Dustin again, some day! This is a precious photo, one you will always cherish What a handsome little boy And when you get to heaven, Dustin will be there waiting for a million hugs, from 'MOM!'
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
9 Dec 19
@CarolDM I know that God provided this awesome experience, because he loves you so much! It's hard for us to imagine eternal love, what you shared with Dustin will never go away
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
@kobesbuddy Just gone too soon but thank you again.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
Thank you for your continued encouragement.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
10 Dec 19
@CarolDM I remember you talking about Dustin's garden. I can imagine how you must feel. I never had children to lose. Take care of yourself.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
11 Dec 19
@CarolDM That is a very special way to remember him by and you are welcome.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 19
Yes I do the garden in his memory. Thank you.
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@LindaOHio (222232)
• United States
9 Dec 19
What can I say that can comfort you? I'm so sorry for your loss; and i know that Dustin is watching you from above and does want you to be happy. You will see him again some day. I firmly believe that. Hugs.
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@LindaOHio (222232)
• United States
10 Dec 19
@CarolDM Any time..I am here for you. :-)
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Dec 19
@LindaOHio Thank you again.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
9 Dec 19
Just being a friend is all I need. Thanks for that.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
10 Dec 19
You have said such a wonderful thing that we should take nothing or no one for granted in life. But we tend to overlook it. For sure Dustin is a part of you forever and he is very much in your heart. Children can never be separated from a mother's heart. I admire you for trying to stay happy because that matters a lot to Dustin
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
15 Dec 19
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Dec 19
Thank you for your kind words.
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