I’m organized
By C
@ShyBear88 (59342)
Sterling, Virginia
January 8, 2020 8:03pm CST
I got a compliment saying I’m organized from an online mom friend. I told her thanks, but I’m not that organized I struggle with it and most of the house is like a bomb went off. I told her it gets judged hard but my husbands side of the family because I’m not a neat person I don’t spend all day cleaning every room of the house to make it sparkle. It’s just not me. I struggle with it and I try every day just some people are really good at keeping everything put up and organized.
It’s nice when another mom isn’t hating all over you for the way your house is or isn’t!
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
9 Jan 20
With kids in the house nothing can be left arranged well
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
9 Jan 20
@amitkokiladitya yep, when at school the mess is less. Today I have to clean a bath room someone peed on the floor
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
9 Jan 20
@ShyBear88 I have one and still my room is a mess.
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Jan 20
I am glad I am on my own I can let things slide and put them together when I am ready because there is no one to complain
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
9 Jan 20
My husband doesn’t complain because he knows I can do it all in a day so he helps and we do one room at time
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
9 Jan 20
I try to do my best. But at the same time, I want to live the life I want. And I am not interested on being the slave of a house.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
9 Jan 20
Same here! I also say I don’t want to live in a museum I want to live in a house that’s lived in not to be just shown.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
9 Jan 20
Yes it’s hard when you have kids and I don’t stress it and try to teach them to to try to put your stuff away
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@Deepizzaguy (122070)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
9 Jan 20
Keeping a home clean is a very tough job for anyone to deal with.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
9 Jan 20
Yes, and I’ve learned that some people are very good at it and some people that’s all they do all day. I just try not to fight a battle I’m going to lose.
@almostoveryou (4954)
• Philippines
3 Mar 20
I can relate with you. I hate it when other people tend to judge the mess in your house when they've got helpers and housekeepers tidying up their own every single day.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
3 Mar 20
At least this mom was understanding and was complimenting me vs telling me it was bad.
It’s hard when you have three active kids. I know moms that can do it all but I’m just not that mom I need a day to just chill some times too.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Mar 20
@almostoveryou yes. I do clean and stuff but I also like to take my time and my own speed
@almostoveryou (4954)
• Philippines
5 Mar 20
@ShyBear88 I am that kind of mom too. I need my downtime.
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