I'm in SILENCE because...

@Shavkat (141906)

Philippines

January 27, 2020 6:27am CST

It has been a month that I can't pull myself together. This year is a tough one. My immediate family and the evil aunt agreed with certain conditions. Now, we're so busy packing things up and planning to move out of the old house on the 30th of January. We got the initial share of my old man. As usual, it's an inheritance issue. We do feel bad about this concern, but we need to escape from so many fusses. By the way, I will try to pop in here at random. "Do you sometimes keep in silence for certain reasons?" Image Credit: media.giphy.com

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@rakski (156260)

• Philippines

27 Jan 20

What do you mean 'agreed with certain conditions'? Where are going to move? Sorry I am just confuse on the post

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@rakski (156260)

• Philippines

27 Jan 20

@Shavkat aw that is sad to hear. But I think moving without them will be a better solution than being with them

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@hereandthere (45628)

• Philippines

27 Jan 20

@Shavkat have you already found a place to move to? i hope your mother is okay.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

27 Jan 20

@rakski I think it is the best solution. It has been planned for years now. Now, we are moving on and forget my father's siblings for good.

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@LadyDuck (502207)

• Italy

27 Jan 20

Yes, I often keep in silence for certain reasons. I am sorry for your problems.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

27 Jan 20

It's fine, my friend. It was a good thing because we can move on and forget the past soon.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

28 Jan 20

@LadyDuck After we get the last share of my late father, they are all in archives.

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@LadyDuck (502207)

• Italy

28 Jan 20

@Shavkat You are right and now it is important to move on and forget.

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@eileenleyva (27555)

• Philippines

28 Jan 20

Do take care. Here's wishing you find peace after the prowling you've been made to endure. Yes, the sound of silence is very calming.

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@eileenleyva (27555)

• Philippines

28 Jan 20

@Shavkat Everything happens for a reason. The important thing is how graciously you endure the trials. Wait for the joy that comes after.

@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

28 Jan 20

I'm doing fine now. Things are being planned. We're almost done with the moving moment. But I still wanted to keep in silence. I would be more motivated if we settled in our new abode.

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@DaddyEvil (174281)

• United States

24 Feb 20

I am so sorry about your problems, my friend. I wish there was something I could do to help you.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

9 Mar 20

I do like the idea of being helped. Personally, you have been doing it with your words of wisdom. How can I have that?

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

11 Mar 20

@DaddyEvil Seriously? I'm with my senses when said this wisdom.

Oh, boy! Are you in denial?

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@DaddyEvil (174281)

• United States

11 Mar 20

"Words of wisdom"? When have I ever said anything you would hear as "wisdom"? Tell me the truth, Shavkat...

are you sick and running a fever now? Are you hallucinating? Do you have Covid 19 virus

?

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@YrNemo (20254)

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30 Jan 20

Hang on, does it mean that you are moving into a better place? Do let us know. (I am so curious about this.) I haven't been active lately either. Life has lots of commitments which I have to do them first. If I am not in a good mood, I won't be in either, no point in passing that contagious mood around.)

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

9 Mar 20

Now, my family and I are renting an apartment in the meantime. We're still looking for a land that can be bought and build a new house. I need to fast track these changes in our lives and deal with them.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

12 Mar 20

@YrNemo We are fine now. It's a matter of adjusting.

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@YrNemo (20254)

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12 Mar 20

@Shavkat Ouch, all the headaches! Wish you and your family all the best.

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@florelway (23339)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

26 Feb 20

I'm sorry to hear that. Inheritance issue breaks relationships. We are also facing that concern now relative to the estate of my old maid aunt. Some cousins do not want to go by the law and it appears that we are the villains because we just kept quiet.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

26 Feb 20

My family and I kept in silence for a long time. However, we need to cut the tie with our familial relatives. But then, my late father's siblings are not realizing the importance of the blood-related thing. Now, we're fine to forget the past and ready to face the future.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

28 Feb 20

@florelway I agree with you. By Monday, it would be official to end the tie with my evil relatives. One of them is living in CDO. He is the main reason why this thing happened.

But I don't care now.

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@florelway (23339)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

27 Feb 20

@Shavkat facing a bright future is easier if we let go of ill feelings.

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@rsa101 (40952)

• Philippines

26 Feb 20

That is bad that you have to move out of that ancestral house of yours. I think for the peace of mind of your parents they decided to give up and just leave as far as you can. Good luck on finding a new place to settle down.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

26 Feb 20

My family and I found a rented apartment in the meantime. It's better to be like this and continue to find a land property. Thank you for your concern.

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@snowy22315 (208770)

• United States

16 Feb 20

I guess sometimes if things are not going well. January 30 is past, do you mean next Jan 30?

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@snowy22315 (208770)

• United States

23 Feb 20

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

25 Feb 20

Thank you.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

23 Feb 20

It was the last week of January this year.

Now, we are settled in our new house.

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@RebeccasFarm (91299)

• United States

23 Feb 20

I am so sorry..as you know Shavkat I understand the evil relatives..I had the same I wish you many blessings to find a place to live out your lives

I am the same here..cheated out of everything..and living from hand to mouth..not good

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

9 Mar 20

It's a bit late but we did find a new abode. These people had cheated us for so many years. But then, it's better to end it.

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@RebeccasFarm (91299)

• United States

9 Mar 20

@DianneN (254949)

• United States

27 Jan 20

I’m so sorry you have to move out. Money causes so much evil in people.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

27 Jan 20

I agree with you. It wasn't my family that would be questioned by the people. It would be her because she'd done so many evil deeds to us.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

28 Jan 20

@DianneN In the meantime, my family and I will rent an apartment. Then, we will find a land area to build a new home for us.

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@DianneN (254949)

• United States

28 Jan 20

I hope you can find another home without much of a problem. That’s so sad.

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@thelme55 (79311)

• Germany

24 Feb 20

I am sorry for the unfair inheritance. Yes, it is better to move out and find a new home. It is healthy for you and your family to be away from toxic relatives. Where do you live now?

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

25 Feb 20

I agree with you. We're still living in the same city. Temporarily, my family and I need to rent a house and looking to buy a titled lot. In time, we could have our own house.

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@arunima25 (93194)

• Bangalore, India

27 Jan 20

Sorry to know that you are going through tough phase. I feel that silence is really powerful... It gives strength and is healing. Prayers and thoughts for you.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

28 Jan 20

Thank you for the prayers. I'm sure things would be fine soon. I didn't expect that it would have these drastic changes in me and the other family members.

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@arunima25 (93194)

• Bangalore, India

29 Jan 20

@Shavkat Life is quite unexpected and can be really mean at times. Hold on to your faith. This too shall pass.

@DocAndersen (54399)

• United States

24 Feb 20

take care of you - things like this are stressful!

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

9 Mar 20

I do agree with you. But we need to face it and be challenged.

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@DocAndersen (54399)

• United States

9 Mar 20

@Shavkat it is really true!

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@Nakitakona (59987)

• Philippines

26 Feb 20

Sorry to hear that. Is it okay now?

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

26 Feb 20

Thank God we're settled in a new rental apartment now. My family and I adjusting to the new changes. Now, we're planning to buy a lot and build our new house. Hopefully, we could have it within this year.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

26 Feb 20

@Nakitakona There's no rush for now. We need to start from scratch. But it's better than dealing with the evil relatives.

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@Nakitakona (59987)

• Philippines

26 Feb 20

@Shavkat Don't worry. God will provide.

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@mom210 (9170)

• United States

30 Jan 20

sometimes we just have to stay silent and see what happens next.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

9 Mar 20

I agree. Having a problem couldn't be solved overnight. It would be solved step-by-step.

@AkoPinay (11496)

• Philippines

3 Feb 20

I am in silence if I have no money.

Hope all is OK by now.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

9 Mar 20

At this time, we're fine now. It needs to have more time to adjust to the changes. I have to consider the budget.

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@aureliah (24687)

• Kenya

29 Jan 20

Yes sometimes its good to just be silent

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

9 Mar 20

It could give us the time to think over something.

@dya80dya (36805)

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27 Jan 20

Yes. Sometimes I don't want to talk.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

27 Jan 20

I can feel you. That's the reason why I kept in silence.

@ZedSmart (19839)

• Philippines

27 Jan 20

When arguments went futile, I won't say words no more. That time, it must he a hint that I'm already full.

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

27 Jan 20

I have the same feeling. But if the attack is below the belt. Perhaps I need to fight back professionally.

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@happylife1 (13403)

• Karachi, Pakistan

27 Jan 20

Feeling sorrg over injustice with you

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@Shavkat (141906)

• Philippines

28 Jan 20

You can put it that way. But I think it's better to end than to deal with these people again and again.