We're home from the Nepali wedding

@JudyEv (381753)
Rockingham, Australia
January 30, 2020 8:30am CST
Well, where to start? We’ve just been to our first Nepalese Hindu wedding and what an amazing experience. It’s hard to know where to start but here’s the two of us, together with the little daughter of the owners of the B&B. We caught a taxi to the bride’s house then walked with others to the venue. The saris were incredibly beautifully and worn with a lot of gold necklaces, ear-rings, hair-pieces and bangles. We had looked at some jewellery in a shop the day before and saw some of the same necklaces that were at the wedding and many were around $A2,400. Many of the gowns were rich gold and red brocade with a lot of gold thread work and jewelled embroidery. We left at 10.00am and got home about 6.30pm. Around 4pm, it began to rain but luckily didn’t get too bad. Tomorrow we go to the groom’s ‘side’ for a party. We’re due at 4pm and have arranged for the one taxi to take us there and bring us back at 8pm. I’ll write more another time.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
30 Jan 20
What a beautiful photo, of you and Vince with the little girl:) I'd love to see a Nepalese Hindu wedding, just to find out how it's carried out.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
It was certainly an eye-opener. I'll try to describe most of it in the next few posts.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
@kobesbuddy True. Divorce is very much frowned upon.
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@kobesbuddy (78833)
• East Tawas, Michigan
31 Jan 20
@JudyEv Their marriages are probably a binding commitment. Here in the US, a marriage is temporary in most instances.
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
30 Jan 20
I love you photo. You look so beautiful my friend
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• Germany
3 Feb 20
@JudyEv Glad to know
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Thank you very much. We enjoyed the wedding very much.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
30 Jan 20
I love the photo, you all look lovely! =)
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Thanks very much. It was quite an amazing day.
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@Spontaneo (14699)
• United States
30 Jan 20
You look beautiful!
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Thank you very much.
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@Spontaneo (14699)
• United States
1 Feb 20
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@Janet357 (75638)
31 Jan 20
oh you are in Nepalese costume. :))
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
I'm not. It's actually what I wore to my son's wedding about ten years ago.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
@Janet357 Yes, our host paid for most of it.
@Janet357 (75638)
31 Jan 20
@JudyEv really? but Vince is in Nepalese.costume
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
30 Jan 20
I'm glad you enjoyed the wedding. You look beautiful.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Thanks for your kind words.
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@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Feb 20
I also think saris are beautiful. It seems here that the brides will also wear gold necklaces, bracelets and so on in the wedding feast. It is a kind of tradition. The color red is also an important element in the wedding.
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@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Feb 20
@JudyEv If I were you, I might buy a sari since it is a pretty dress
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
@youless I would never have any occasion to wear it in Australia. I did buy the shawl I'm wearing.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
I gathered that red was important and certainly some of the saris were very elegant.
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@ptrikha_2 (49753)
• India
31 Jan 20
You had a great experience. You folks look quite great in this photograph! So would you share more wedding pictures?
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Yes, I've done a couple of posts already and will do some more.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
31 Jan 20
Nepal is not much different when it comes to clothes. What a beautiful photo that is Judy. I love it.
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@allknowing (153544)
• India
1 Feb 20
@JudyEv Yes. I meant to say that. (lol) They do deck themselves up for weddings.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
@allknowing Here are some of the guests. The mother of the bride is second from the right.
@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Much different to India do you mean? The women were all much more glamorous than I was.
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@rebelann (117196)
• El Paso, Texas
30 Jan 20
Beautiful shot of all of you. Are those the Himalayas in the background? Wow.
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@rebelann (117196)
• El Paso, Texas
1 Feb 20
If those are hills I wonder how big the himalayas will be @JudyEv
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
@rebelann Pretty immense I guess. We're heading there tomorrow.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
I think those are just some hills. We'll hopefully see the Himilayas when we get to Pokhara on Sunday - if they're not covered in fog.
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@Juliaacv (56195)
• Canada
30 Jan 20
You both look so great. I work with a couple of girls that were married over there and they have shown me their wedding books. The outfits and jewelry that they wear is amazing. I am sure that in person it is much more stunning then even the photos that I have been shown.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
The amount of gold and glitter was incredible. Really rich looking gowns and fabrics then all this jewellery as well.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
30 Jan 20
I'm glad you had a wonderful time at the wedding. I love the photo. You both look fabulous and the little girl is precious.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
31 Jan 20
@JudyEv It looks like it was.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Thanks. The wedding was quite an experience.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
30 Jan 20
I love the photo. I bet that was different.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Thanks. The wedding was something else. Very different.
@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
30 Jan 20
Wow! You are looking great. The photo is beautiful.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Thanks very much.
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@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
31 Jan 20
@JudyEv You are very welcome. Have a nice day!
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
31 Jan 20
Well, that is a simple wedding. If you were to see some of ours, (Our folks are truly extravagant) you would realize how much we waste just to have others remember the event. Nothing less than 10500 AUD ..that too when the folks can ill afford. Borrow heavily for the event. Become poor in the process. And only rich folks get invited. Others are ignored even if they attend. So yeah, Hindu functions are not exactly what I look forward to but that may essentially be because of the ones I have known in my life. There is bickering on return gifts, etc. I hate functions. Sorry. But you two do look happy. As long as you are an outsider, and are not a party to inner politics, it can be a fun I suppose.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
31 Jan 20
@JudyEv Do such differences crop up about return gifts at your end too? I hate gifting sessions altogether. They are so mean! They compare costs and if they do not like color they are fighting over it.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
We enjoyed it. It was only the jewellery that was that price. The ceremonies would have been very expensive. Hopefully there won't be too much bickering but I'm sure it happens.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
@vandana7 Mostly there doesn't seem to be any problems thankfully. I guess sometimes there are but we don't get to hear of them.
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@rakski (156200)
• Philippines
31 Jan 20
That is move to hear. It surely is a good experience to attend culturally different event
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@rakski (156200)
• Philippines
31 Jan 20
@JudyEv yes, I like that. I learn first hand by experiencing it
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
It is really good to learn about different cultures I think.
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@WorDazza (15826)
• Manchester, England
30 Jan 20
Is that a smile on Vince's face or is the weird cut of his trouser playing havoc with sensitive areas?? In all seriousness though you both look incredible. Hope you have another great day tomorrow.
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@WorDazza (15826)
• Manchester, England
31 Jan 20
@JudyEv Make the most of the compliment. They don't happen often Glad today was good too. Sounds like you both had a blast.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
There was plenty of b**room as they say. Thanks for the compliment. It's all over now. Today was good too.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
@WorDazza I'll treasure it.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
30 Jan 20
That’s such a lovely photo. You all look incredible! I’m so happy the wedding was so wonderful. Our daughter-in-law told me last night that she and her sister attended a wedding on one of their trips to Nepal. They both found it so unique!
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Thanks for the compliment. The wedding was certainly unique. We're lucky to have had the chance to attend.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
2 Feb 20
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
30 Jan 20
@JudyEv You guys look amazing. The little one is very cute. Judy, thanks for sharing the picture with us.
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Thanks and it's nice to be able to share our experiences and photos here.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
2 Feb 20
@JudyEv You are welcome.
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
31 Jan 20
Wow a lovely photo of a family. And also your so pretty, I like your smile
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@JudyEv (381753)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 20
Thank you. I have smiled a lot the last few days.
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
31 Jan 20
@JudyEv thats good for the health. Always happy
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