I had a miscarriage
By Ms Rae
@carebear29 (32002)
Wausau, Wisconsin
February 13, 2020 2:45pm CST
i forgot to mention in my last post i did have a miscarriage. everyone keeps asking how baby is doing...well, here it is. yes i miscarried but i am doing okay. baby died at 6 weeks in me but i didn't pass baby until 19 weeks. baby daddy was depressed too which i am not discussing baby daddy. we only lasted 3 1/2 months and after the miscarriage lets just say he went back to his ex.
yes i am still kinda with my husband but he is still seeing the same chick and has been for over a year now. i have things in the works to leave but now i just have to find a job or good income again because i was recently let go at Boost. I am hoping to have a job soon. i am not giving up. no bashing my situation please because i have enough on my plate. thanks
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@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
13 Feb 20
I'm so sorry for your whole situation. We all had no idea what you were going through. You have lots of support here on MyLot.
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
15 Feb 20
@carebear29 what did you Dr.say about this.?
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Feb 20
Sorry to hear you miscarried.. I hope you find another job soon.
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@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
16 Feb 20
@carebear29 I hope things work out for you
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
16 Feb 20
thanks and thats ok. im focusing on things right now
@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
14 Feb 20
No matter whats going on in your life, relationship wise, it's never good when someone has a miscarriage. So I am sorry for your loss. And I hope you're seeing a therapist or someone about it, as I know it's not your first, or easy.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
18 Feb 20
@carebear29
I am so so sorry. I know how hard it must be for you. I also miscarried, but, never had a human child. I understand that you have to take care of yourself first. I am so sorry all you are going through on top of the miscarriage.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
23 Feb 20
@carebear29
You are welcome and that is very hard to deal with.
@eileenleyva (27555)
• Philippines
13 Feb 20
Hey, there are good times and there are bad times. No bashing. Schadenfreude is an illness.
The positive thing here is - you are able to express your self. That means you know the situation and would be able to handle it. Give your self a moment to heal. Losing a baby is emotionally and physically exasperating. Sleep and nourish your mind and body. When you've rested, gather your thoughts and make your plans.
The good Lord guide you from here on.
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@sprite1950 (30461)
• Corsham, England
14 Feb 20
It sounds as if you are having a tough time at the moment but things will get better. I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby, it doesn't matter how early in the pregnancy it was, it was still a little life. Take care of yourself.
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@sprite1950 (30461)
• Corsham, England
15 Feb 20
@carebear29 I'm sure they will.
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@porwest (112717)
• United States
15 Feb 20
@carebear29 In some ways I regret that we didn't give it another go. I am sure the third time would have been a charm. But she just couldn't bear it. Our oldest would be about 9 or 10 right now.
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