Lost my everything today

@carebear29 (32002)
Wausau, Wisconsin
March 14, 2020 9:50pm CST
today has been the crappiest day. i now disowned some of my husbands family members after the crap he pulled last night and said. i am in the process of having a back up plan thanks to what happened today. he had his aunt take him to his so called ex girlfriends house and in that process she had told me everything he had said. he was planning on leaving me and takin our son with him and in the process of moving out soon and so much more. i now have a back up plan and plan to keep it. i am fed up with the homewreckers drama and cant stay out of my marriage. my husband keeps trying to fix us but i dont think it will work anymore. after last night and into today i have officially broke. he will not get his son if he does because his so called ex girlfriend got busted for meth and other drugs and i don't want my son around any of that. besides, its sad our own 8 year old wants nothing to do with his dad
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@jstory07 (148701)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Mar 20
Why do people have toput a child into the middle of everything. I hope it all works out for you.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Mar 20
thanks me too
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@AmbiePam (120533)
• United States
15 Mar 20
It's pathetic that he wants to involve your son into that drama.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Mar 20
yup it is
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
15 Mar 20
Dad seems to just want to hurt you any way he can, even by trying to take your son.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Mar 20
yuppers
@crossbones27 (52907)
• Mojave, California
15 Mar 20
I hope works out breaks my heart
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Mar 20
it prolly wont
@id_peace (17036)
• Singapore
15 Mar 20
I do hope that you are coping well now. I do believe that when life close a door for you, it will open another door for you.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Mar 20
not really. need a job to do what i need to do
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• Agra, India
15 Mar 20
I'm so sorry for all that is taking place there. But such things are really hard for the 8 year old child.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Mar 20
yes they are for him
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• Agra, India
21 Mar 20
@carebear29 yes...but with you he will learn to get over it in a smart way
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Mar 20
I'm sorry to hear this. Do what you think is right.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
21 Mar 20
@carebear29 I'm sure you can handle this with grace.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Mar 20
i planned on it
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Mar 20
That's just horrible. I think it's time to put your plan into action.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Mar 20
yup it is
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Mar 20
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
19 Mar 20
The other woman is NOT the problem. The problem is your husband. Simple as that. It's partly also you. For not moving on when you have mentioned many times you don't believe they aren't together and what not. YOU are doing all this to yourself. And to your son. Just as his dad is. But it is sad he doesn't want anything to do with his dad, but not surprising with how you've been talking. Also, your only "everything" should be your child. Not a man / partner.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Mar 20
yes i know. i am doing what i need to do
@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
15 Mar 20
I'm so sorry. I'm also sorry that your son has to be involved with all of this. Hugs.
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@carebear29 (32002)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Mar 20
its ok hes used to it
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