Making Positive Changes in my Life

@BloggerDi (3121)
United States
March 31, 2020 11:08am CST
I saw this picture-quote today and it really made me think! Confession: I tend to be a procrastinator/avoider about difficult situations in my life. Sometimes, it's serious relationship issues or my own grief and emotional baggage that I must deal with. Other times, it's much smaller things I put off- like doing certain chores that I dislike. I find the quote to be true so often though. After I accomplish something that I've avoided too long, I usually think "That really wasn't so bad!" Plus I feel a weight off my shoulders. It's a win-win! Who else will confess to struggling with avoidance as I do? Please share success stories too.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
4 Apr 20
That is so true! I’m the biggest procrastinator I know! Once I get to whatever, it’s never as bad as I anticipated. I must remember that!
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
4 Apr 20
Thanks a lot @DianneN, for sharing your thoughts.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
4 Apr 20
@BloggerDi I’m lucky I had a thought in my head. Not many there these days.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
5 Apr 20
@DianneN Oh but you're still able to share interesting posts! I've seen 'em!
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@WorDazza (15826)
• Manchester, England
31 Mar 20
My middle name begins with a P. The standing joke at home is that it stands for procrastinator. It has always been my motto to never do today what can be put off until tomorrow. Having said that the one piece of advice I have always given to anyone facing a difficult situation is that it is never as bad in reality as it is in your head. I need to follow my own advice!!!
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@WorDazza (15826)
• Manchester, England
1 Apr 20
@BloggerDi Let's face it, most of us are normally on myLot to avoid doing something else
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
1 Apr 20
@WorDazza True!
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
1 Apr 20
I knew I couldn't be the only procrastinator on myLot. Thanks for the advice. I think it's true in most cases!
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@JudyEv (381760)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Apr 20
I agree completely with us. Some of the household tasks I avoid actually take very little time. The other thing is that, if something is worrying you and you're able to 'voice' it - tell someone about it, suddenly it loses all its power and importance.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
1 Apr 20
You make some great observations @JudyEv. Thanks!
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@Deepizzaguy (122070)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
1 Apr 20
I do struggle with getting up early in the morning to clean out the garbage cans inside the home and having to get going on doing surveys on the internet.
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@Deepizzaguy (122070)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
2 Apr 20
@BloggerDi That is okay since it takes me a while to get in a work mode myself.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
1 Apr 20
Thanks @Deepizzaguy. I can usually get out of bed early, but I am not very functional until about 10 a.m.! Sad but true.
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@Moon24 (22394)
• Serbia
31 Mar 20
I like this quote.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
1 Apr 20
Thank you @Moon24. I'm glad you like it.
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@Moon24 (22394)
• Serbia
1 Apr 20
@BloggerDi I like positive quotes. I have some on my phone.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
31 Mar 20
I never avoid anything, but I think I should start.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
1 Apr 20
Your comment made me smile @Nevena83. Thanks!
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
1 Apr 20
@BloggerDi I'm glad for that.
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
31 Mar 20
I love Norman Vincent Peale. Everything he says is something I can relate to. Thanks for this quote. Like cleaning up shelves...I had been fearing doing it. But I did it.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
1 Apr 20
Good for you @vandana7, for getting your shelves finished! I've admired Mr. Peale's work for many years too. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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@Orson_Kart (8250)
• United Kingdom
31 Mar 20
I've been trying to put off getting older, but as the years go by I find it increasingly more difficult.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
1 Apr 20
Hahaa, don't we all, @Orson_Kart! Thank you.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
31 Mar 20
We all fall down, but we have to get up and move forward. Nice quote.
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@BloggerDi (3121)
• United States
1 Apr 20
You're so right. Thank you @CarolDM.
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