Do you have the courage to?
By Toni
@toniganzon (77064)
Philippines
March 31, 2020 10:50pm CST
My brother-in-law who happens to be a registered nurse refuse to volunteer in this time of crisis. He has a one year old baby and his mother-in-law is a senior citizen. He said, he'd be risking his family's life. His wife agrees with him.
If you were in his situation, would you volunteer?
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
1 Apr 20
Yeahh! And he has a children. Its hard to leave that baby alone
@rsa101 (40952)
• Philippines
1 Apr 20
@toniganzon Well I chose a different career path so I would stay at home is what is best for everyone and that is enough contributions to lessen burden on those that chose to fight the virus head on.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
1 Apr 20
of course. Heh already made a choice.
How about you?
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@happylife1 (13403)
• Karachi, Pakistan
1 Apr 20
if i were.....i would be.........we need volunteer passions now
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
His mother in law doesn't have health issues
If it were me though, I would volunteer. I could just isolate myself.
Her sister in New Jersey is working as a nurse and since some of her patients are positive in covid19 she just isolates herself away from her children. She has a 10 month old baby too and her parents in law are staying in her house and both have health issues.
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@rebelann (117199)
• El Paso, Texas
3 Apr 20
Each person has to decide if they want to sacrifice their families to volunteer or simply stay with their families and let what happens happen @toniganzon
I'm not sure I would risk my baby and in laws to this insidious disease.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
@rebelann True. My sister-in-law isn't risking her family that's why she stays in the basement and is isolating herself from her family. She cannot abandon her patients at the same time. I would have done the same.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
9 Apr 20
@LadyDuck It's pretty exhausting physically and mentally. I hope it will be over soon and hope our frontlines would be able to take a rest.
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@LadyDuck (502190)
• Italy
3 Apr 20
@toniganzon I talked to my niece (his daughter) she told me that he is fine but exhausted. Italians are confined at home, so they cannot meet.
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@DaddyEvil (174224)
• United States
3 Apr 20
If I was given the choice, no, I wouldn't.
Since I wasn't given a choice, I still go in to work at Walmart five days a week. I'd much rather I didn't need to be there.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
You are considered one of the frontlines.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
9 Apr 20
@DaddyEvil I don't belong to the high Risk people and our business is one of the essentials actually so I do have to work as well. I do my best to boost my immune system.
Stay safe.
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@DaddyEvil (174224)
• United States
3 Apr 20
@toniganzon Yes, ma'am, and I'm also one of the high risk people, as well.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
I would too and I would isolate myself from my family. If that's the only thing I could do to help, I would.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
@DianneN There's a process of disinfecting a person actually and I think hospital staff go thorough that.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
3 Apr 20
@toniganzon I did as much as I could possibly do by washing my hands and taking a bath.
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@koopharper (7599)
• Canada
1 Apr 20
That would be a family decision. I have an added issue in that I have asthma and would be at high risk.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
People who are at high Risk aren't allowed to volunteer.
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@koopharper (7599)
• Canada
3 Apr 20
@toniganzon Makes the decision a lot easier. 

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@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
3 Apr 20
Absolutely not my child would be more important Toni
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
9 Apr 20
Yes I can understand that point as well. But if it were me, I would volunteer not because I don't care about my child but because there's a way to protect my family and myself without neglecting my duty to help others. What if all the health care providers would only think about their family? Who would provide care for those in need?
@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
I think we cannot judge if he is doing the right thing or not. People have their reasons. Though if it were me, I would gladly volunteer.
I even heard That nurses who volunteered in New York actually went back home and quit when a lockdown was announced.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
@just4him True and each person has their own priority.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Apr 20
@toniganzon We all do what is best for our situations.
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@allenjames (294)
• Philippines
1 Apr 20
I really don't know what I will do if I were in your brother's situation. Considering he has a family to be worried about, I understand his point. And I think the people around him respected his decision.
@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
Yes, people have their reasons.
I would volunteer though if I had a degree in the medical field.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
9 Apr 20
@thelme55 I can't too. That's why I didn't go to a medical school. But if I did, I would gladly fulfill my oath and duty.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
2 Apr 20
@toniganzon
I can understand what he is saying. He has a lot to risk.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
Yes and people have their own priorities at this time.
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
1 Apr 20
This is really a very tough question
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
For me, it isn't because I would jump at the chance to help people. But each person is different.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
9 Apr 20
@amitkokiladitya I have family, I have a son, but I'm wiling to extend whatever help I can. It's not only for me, it's for the people who badly need it. I cannot be selfish at this time.
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
3 Apr 20
@toniganzon yes...when we have a family and kids the situation becomes very difficult
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
1 Apr 20
It's a very difficult situation actually but if I had a degree in the medical field, I wouldn't hesitate to volunteer.
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
1 Apr 20
@toniganzon yeahh. But how about your son or daughter? Lets just say you lost your life? It would he hard



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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
@JhovanPH I am pretty sure my son would grow up to be proud of me. And besides, he's financially secure and I know my husband and my siblings are going to give him the love.
I'd rather die fulfilling my oath than watch others die because I didn't due my duty as a person with a degree in the medical field. What good is the diploma and the certificate of my professional license if I won't actually use it? When you become a professional someday, pass your board exam, and take your oath with sincerity, you would know how it feels like.
Unfortunately, I don't have a medical degree.
My sister is a nurse and another sister is a doctor. They're both frontlines.
My sister-in-law in New Jersey is even isolating herself from her family and her 10 month old baby because she is working in a hospital where patients have covid19.
But each person is different. And I am me and I want to serve even if it means I have to die. At least I'll die happy and I'll die serving my country and the people.
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@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
1 Apr 20
Although he has legitimate concerns about the safety of his family, when he became a nurse he swore an oath to serve no matter what. I think it's his duty to help out in this situation. The people of your country need him in this time of crisis. He would just have to take steps to isolate himself from his wife, baby, and mother-in-law to protect them from getting the virus.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
Yes, that's what I would have done if I had a medical degree.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
Right. His wife is also a nurse by the way but she works in Saudi Arabia and is here only for a vacation.
Last night, I was actually surprised that they would want to claim support from the government. Overseas Foreign Worker in distress benefit. But they aren't in distress at all.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
1 Apr 20
At the moment I live alone, so yes I would help.
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
I don't live alone. I have my family with me too. I would help but I would isolate myself. Unfortunately I don't have a medical degree.



















