cant understand why i get rejected

Philippines
April 20, 2020 11:35am CST
Its been unlucky of me to have been rejected by the women that i like in a number of occasions. I come to think of myself as maybe the reason is that im still not mature. What makes a guy mature?
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Christina Kathy Terrylynn Armstrong
@VoiceofTruth7 (1210)
• United States
21 Apr 20
Dont go looking for the right girl the right girl will come along that will accept you for you. I thought I would never find love and happiness but I have the guy iam with loves God and loves me we are inseparable we finish each other sentences and we are just like two peas in a pod. If this happened for me I know it will happen for u in time be patient and wait.
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thatsjvl
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
21 Apr 20
well yeah I guess meet more people. Am i not mature?
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Christina Kathy Terrylynn Armstrong
@VoiceofTruth7 (1210)
• United States
21 Apr 20
@jvincent_129 I did not say you're not mature I ,said be patient and wait the girl that is right for will come alonweg in due time .
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linzzyyy
@iniaku (2193)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 20
as a woman. i see man from the way he talk, the way he respect others maybe you can try to understand yourself first
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thatsjvl
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
21 Apr 20
like how?
thatsjvl
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
21 Apr 20
@iniaku im not humorist. One thing i have is that i cared for them. I dont know if i am a cheerful person also. I might be boring.
linzzyyy
@iniaku (2193)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 20
@jvincent_129 what kind of man you are. cheerfull, humourist, etc. and dont forget be kind to others. sometimes when you care to someone, even it just a little things, women will easily moved.
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babytaffster
@babytaffster (2236)
• Chatsworth, California
22 Apr 20
Everyone gets rejected at some point, and with some people it happens a lot. I have frequently been rejected. It isn’t always about maturity level.
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thatsjvl
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
22 Apr 20
why were you rejected?
Jo Ann
@akalinus (44366)
• United States
20 Apr 20
Experience makes people more mature. Try to develop an interest in something and become good at it. Talk to everyone, male and female without trying to hit on women. Before long, you will seem a lot more interesting and women will take a second look. Don't look pitiful and desperate.
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thatsjvl
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
21 Apr 20
okay ill take that advice. But what makes a man mature?
Jo Ann
@akalinus (44366)
• United States
21 Apr 20
@jvincent_129 Maturity is being responsible for yourself, paying your own way, and helping others. But in the world of 2020, we just don't know what to do.
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mikko soller
@kokoks (466)
• Philippines
20 Apr 20
did you ask them why they rejected you? there's a lot of reasons. It can be the wat you present yourself, your personality even the things you like can affect her choice. It's best to ask them though.
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thatsjvl
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
21 Apr 20
By the time i asked, they are already ghosting me. hahahaha
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mikko soller
@kokoks (466)
• Philippines
21 Apr 20
@jvincent_129 Just be patient, focus on other things instead. Being single is not a crime.
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