Men - Handicap or Handiman
By vanny
@vandana7 (98823)
India
June 18, 2020 12:31am CST
I am not gender biased.
Merely 90 percent perhaps, which you will agree makes me a very just and fair person.
This post incidentally is inspired by Eva James' response.
So it is about cleaning and settling. When dad is not around...I accomplish a lot. When he is around, lethargy sets in.
Issue is also with him. He is moving inside the house without considering I am cleaning the room or completely undoes what I have painstakingly done like folding clothes. Its like, where is my that shirt, it should be here. That pant, I forgot some monies in that..you get the picture?
So yeah...the thought of having men around 24/7 is dreadful. I am lazy but this is worse.
Yes, they do those small plumbing jobs, and electrical jobs, which even I can do. Just that they feel less macho if we the women do it.
Electronics I am a zero. So I do need dad for that, and a little bit of electrical and plumbing. But in India services of such folks are damn cheap.
This being the case, do you think its time to dominate menfolk?
(Guys...this is just for fun...not meant to hurt you or start any revolution).
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10 responses
@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
18 Jun 20
Hahaha so now my friend you have thrown down the gauntlet.
1.So yes I agree with you the woman is the boss in the house! We let her believe that.
2.Constant nagging is a lifelong skill of women.
3. Why do you think men generally die before women? It is because they are trying to get away from the nagging.
4. If we say we will do something we do not need constant reminding every six months.
5. Just because you never admit you’re wrong doesn’t mean you’re always right!
6. When you ask if your bottom looks big in this don't get upset when we say yes. You want the truth or a lie?
7. When does nagging start? As soon as I wake up!
8. When does nagging stop? As soon as she goes to bed!
9.I haven't spoken to my wife for years .... I don't like to interrupt her when she's talking.
10. Something for a nagging wife to remember! Silence is Golden. Duct tape is silver!
PS. I pray my wife never sets eyes on this post ! 
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
18 Jun 20
@garymarsh6 I hope your wife will not read. My husband is "The Boss", may be because he was my boss when we met, so nothing changed. He is the boss, the boss is always right, when he takes a decision it is wasted time to discuss. All that said, I accepted this situation since day 1 so I am a happy woman.
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
18 Jun 20
@LadyDuck yes you are a lovely couple Anna.Oh lord my wife would give me an ear bashing if she read that but you have known me long enough to know I am joking! It is all to do with compromise and learning to accept each others opinions, likes and dislikes.
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
18 Jun 20
@vandana7 Hahaha good morning I hope you are well? Now go to the kitchen and make your dad a nice cup of tea and a slice of cake for maligning his good name! 
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
18 Jun 20
Pardon me for saying this. In our home, I am the king. And I dare say that my wife is the ACE. Waheehee.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
18 Jun 20
@vandana7 wahuhuhu, Jack's level. I might be exiled to the beanstalk. Waheehee.
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@rebelann (111163)
• El Paso, Texas
18 Jun 20
I agree with you @garymarsh6 I've met men who were clean freaks and their wives only cook while they'll clean up the kitchen after the meal.
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
18 Jun 20
@vandana7 No it is not how men are.Good grief I would nag him too for living like that.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
21 Oct 20
I prefer to consider my husband as my better half, he has skills I don’t possess and he adores me, what more could I ask?
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
21 Oct 20
@BelleStarr My dad too. But he ends up increasing the work. Like what will get over in two vessels will mean about 5 vessels for him.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
21 Oct 20
@vandana7 my husband helps with housework
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@wolfgirl569 (95136)
• Marion, Ohio
18 Jun 20
Glad to know I am not the only one
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
19 Jun 20
@wolfgirl569 No...they will be made to clean public toilets if they resort to rioting and protesting.
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@wolfgirl569 (95136)
• Marion, Ohio
18 Jun 20
@vandana7 I agree. But we demand no riots. Those will be locked up if we have to do it ourselves
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@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
18 Jun 20
yes I agree . Woman are can do everything a man can do. They must be given equal opportunity to grow and succeed.
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@vandana7 (98823)
• India
18 Jun 20
@jayanth_77 No food for you for one week if you fight for equal rights. Learn to accept your fate.
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@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
18 Jun 20
@vandana7 Then men will fight for equal rights
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
18 Jun 20
You had not been with a real man that you would beg to be with 24/7
.....like what you said it's just for fun, I'm not hurt or intend to start a revolution
.....like what you said it's just for fun, I'm not hurt or intend to start a revolution1 person likes this
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
18 Jun 20
@vandana7 dad, dad and dad, you don't get it, he's a real man too but a different category as far as you are concerned.
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@LindaOHio (156056)
• United States
18 Jun 20
That's not a matter of men and women; it's a matter of respect and concern for what others have done. Someone should not mess up a load of folded clothes when it's obvious that someone took time to make everything neat and orderly.
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