I am sorry for this sad post

@Alexandoy (65308)
Cainta, Philippines
June 18, 2020 10:30pm CST
Last night my wife related that they are raising funds for her office mate who has stage 4 colorectal cancer. She is not even 30 years old. I don't know her but that thought bothered me. Before I slept, I handed my wife $20 as my donation. That act seemed to have relieved me of the sad thoughts.
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@DocAndersen (54413)
• United States
19 Jun 20
so sorry, that is really hard to deal with. Do you know the person well?
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
I actually do not know the person. I just got bothered with the story.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
@DocAndersen yes, she is handling the raising of funds to help in the hospital expenses that is more than $8,000 already.
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@DocAndersen (54413)
• United States
19 Jun 20
@Alexandoy i suspect it bothered your wife a lot
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@LadyDuck (457925)
• Switzerland
19 Jun 20
I am so sorry, she is so young, I fear that at stage 4 it is impossible to try a surgery.
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@LadyDuck (457925)
• Switzerland
20 Jun 20
@Alexandoy Stage 4 means that the cancer has spread to vital organs, this is horrible, she is so young.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
20 Jun 20
@LadyDuck only a miracle can save her. It is a pity that she is young and has no family yet.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
From what my wife said, the patient is already a terminal case.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
19 Jun 20
I’m so sorry for her. That’s so young! I hope your generous donation can help her beat this.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
I am also praying that she can beat the cancer.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
19 Jun 20
@Alexandoy My uncle passed away from it, but back then, they didn't know much about it. I will pray for her.
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
20 Jun 20
@Alexandoy You’re welcome. I’m so sorry about your dear mother. How sad.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
19 Jun 20
Very sad indeed but still you look funny. I am glad you have donated for your wife's office mate.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
Now I am not bothered by the thought of the patient anymore may because I am bothered by my pocket, waheehee.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
20 Jun 20
@thelme55 thank you for the nice thoughts.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
20 Jun 20
@Alexandoy Don´t worry. More blessings will come to you soon.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
19 Jun 20
I am so sorry for the young lady. She is so young to have such a terrible disease. Hope something can be done for her.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
20 Jun 20
Yes, it is a pity to be in that condition.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
26 Jun 20
@nela13 thank you for your kindness.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
26 Jun 20
@Alexandoy my prayers are with her.
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@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
20 Jun 20
now more younger men and women have varied cronic disease. we should have better exercise, life style and food. hopefull she is get well soon
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
20 Jun 20
It may be the lifestyle that we have now plus the polluted air.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
20 Jun 20
@nawala123 you are right, it is a worldwide problem But fortunately I still know of people who reach 100 years of age.
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@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
20 Jun 20
@Alexandoy it is global problem
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@rsa101 (37933)
• Philippines
19 Jun 20
That is very generous of you to do that. I guess she will need a lot of help since having that kind of disease will definitely need a lot of financial help because the medicine is just too expensive despite there’s no guarantee that it will help you get better at all. My mom fought fiercely against it and gave her a decade more but it got to the point that she had to give up because of her body not able to cope anymore. It is indeed sad that such a young blood got it very early in life.
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@rsa101 (37933)
• Philippines
20 Jun 20
@Alexandoy I think what you can do right now matters than doing nothing at all. She may need prayers too for that.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
20 Jun 20
@rsa101 yes, prayers may help.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
It is really sad that all I could do was donate something just to ease my mind about the problem.
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@marguicha (215346)
• Chile
19 Jun 20
I´m so sorry! Stage 4 is very dangerous.
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@marguicha (215346)
• Chile
19 Jun 20
@Alexandoy I´m so sorry. Don´t you have health insurance?
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
@marguicha oh, I don't know if she has health insurance. Me, I don't have.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
From what I understand it is a terminal case. The hospital bill is $8,000 and counting.
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@just4him (305965)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Jun 20
That's so sad. I'm glad you helped.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
Yes, it is a sad story that she is young and has a good job.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
19 Jun 20
That is nice of you to show your support. God bless her.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
I was deeply bothered by the story because it's a pity that she is so young.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
20 Jun 20
@Alexandoy wow I totally understand
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• Philippines
19 Jun 20
She is very young. Sorry to hear that.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
Yes, it is really sad that she has a good career in the bank, single and young.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Jun 20
Very sorry, my thoughts are with her and her family.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
Thank you for the nice thoughts.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Jun 20
@Alexandoy You are welcome.
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@KityCat (7573)
• India
19 Jun 20
That was nice of you . I feel sorry for the lady .
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
I am sorry for her too but I think only a miracle can save her.
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@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
19 Jun 20
It's indeed sad to hear about a young colleague of your wife having end stage colorectal cancer. Your little act of kindness will help her in getting good palliative care and reduce her pain and suffering.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
@jayanth_77 maybe she has been in and out of the hospital. From what my wife said, she was already ill since last year.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
It seems to me that there is no hope anymore.
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• India
19 Jun 20
@Alexandoy Wasn't the lady aware until now about her illness. At stage 1 and 2 the cancer is curable.
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@wolfgirl569 (95082)
• Marion, Ohio
19 Jun 20
That is very young. Hopefully she can beat it.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
It is stage 4 so it is a terminal case.
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@JudyEv (325651)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Jun 20
That's very young to have such a dreadful disease. I'm very sorry.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
It is a pity.
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@holdoors (2487)
• Malaysia
19 Jun 20
It's sad, hopefully a miracle can happen. Can't do much when it's already Stage 4...
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
You are right. Only a miracle can save her.
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• India
19 Jun 20
That's sad. Life is very short these days and don't know what can happen. Hopefully she gets better
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
Too young to die but we have to accept it.
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• India
19 Jun 20
Sad to hear. She is very young.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
Yes, that age may be what is bothering me. So young, so soon.
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@Adie04 (17360)
19 Jun 20
Sorry to hear that.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
Thank you.
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